I'm a Romantic

[kitty_kat_chan]

Not to be confused with romance, I am not mushy fluffy or icky, I can have those tendancies in there time, but they aren't me. I am a romantic at it's best again do not confuse this with romance, being a romantic has nothing to do with love.

the Romantic
"I am unique"
Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.

How to Get Along with Me
 Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me.
 Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself.
 Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.
 Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.
 Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!

What I Like About Being a Four
 my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level
 my ability to establish warm connections with people
 admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life
 my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor
 being unique and being seen as unique by others
 having aesthetic sensibilities
 being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me

What's Hard About Being a Four
 experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair
 feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved
 feeling guilty when I disappoint people
 feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me
 expecting too much from myself and life
 fearing being abandoned
 obsessing over resentments
 longing for what I don't have

Fours as Children Often
 have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original game s
 are very sensitive
 feel that they don't fit in
 believe they are missing something that other people have
 attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.
 become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood
 feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents' divorce)

Fours as Parents
 help their children become who they really are
 support their children's creativity and originality
 are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings
 are sometimes overly critical or overly protective
 are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed So, I am not alone, and I am not a fool, thought i was slowly getting over that, but now I have proof bitches! Oh yeah