i get where you are coming from, and im assuming that it might have a little bit of a something to do with me too. we all feel this way, we all bitch though so we cant go on about everyone else doing it. We all feel exactly the same. the comments, the disappearing in the middle of a night out just the two of you, so we can all feel like you are talking about us. The snyde comments and the giggling and the not getting invited to things. thing is - its a fact of life. we cant really change it cos theres no knowing what we will change it too. So lets either try and solve it, or ignore it and move on. everyone included.
Myself and Sara left to talk about why she was upset. WE DID NOT speek about any one in the group or bitch once.
And actually if we were all good friends like we say we are there would be certainly alot less bitching... but with some that doesnt seem possible- im sick of it. The fact you said.. you cant change it.. YES you can.. quit with the snyde comments and the little remarks and quit bitching about your friends. Everyone like wise. That way we would bloody get on.. thats what it would change to!!!! NO awkward atmospheres.
IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM TAKE IT UP WITH THE PERSON.. NOT WITH EVERYONE ELSE BAR THE PERSON!!!! just stop bitchin.
As you can tell im pissed off, an its rare i speek out.. so yeah its taken alot for it to come to this, an i know youl go ahead an talk to everyone about it etc but i expect that so im prepared. I dont care. Im just telling it like it is!!!
i agree with Cat. i can't say i don't bitch about some people because yea, course i do. although some a lot more than others. i'd go mad if i couldn't tell another person what really pisses me off about someone else. after talking about this at Kirsty's house last night cuz none of us had read it before going out i actually saw what you're talking about Cat. i expected it from a few because i guess thats just what they're like & i know that but i must admit i never saw it happening before from another.
of course it can change. i just don't know if we're all capable of it. i think some people enjoy putting others down as u said, whether that person is in our group or not, to give them more self esteem & i couldn't agree more, that is sad. although i think the rest of can see that what they're like & they're incapable of change since it's clear to see that they don't want to.
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we all feel this way, we all bitch though so we cant go on about everyone else doing it.
We all feel exactly the same. the comments, the disappearing in the middle of a night out just the two of you, so we can all feel like you are talking about us. The snyde comments and the giggling and the not getting invited to things.
thing is - its a fact of life. we cant really change it cos theres no knowing what we will change it too.
So lets either try and solve it, or ignore it and move on. everyone included.
c ya 2nite.
xxx
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And actually if we were all good friends like we say we are there would be certainly alot less bitching... but with some that doesnt seem possible- im sick of it.
The fact you said.. you cant change it.. YES you can.. quit with the snyde comments and the little remarks and quit bitching about your friends. Everyone like wise. That way we would bloody get on.. thats what it would change to!!!! NO awkward atmospheres.
IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM TAKE IT UP WITH THE PERSON.. NOT WITH EVERYONE ELSE BAR THE PERSON!!!! just stop bitchin.
As you can tell im pissed off, an its rare i speek out.. so yeah its taken alot for it to come to this, an i know youl go ahead an talk to everyone about it etc but i expect that so im prepared. I dont care. Im just telling it like it is!!!
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i can't say i don't bitch about some people because yea, course i do. although some a lot more than others. i'd go mad if i couldn't tell another person what really pisses me off about someone else.
after talking about this at Kirsty's house last night cuz none of us had read it before going out i actually saw what you're talking about Cat. i expected it from a few because i guess thats just what they're like & i know that but i must admit i never saw it happening before from another.
of course it can change. i just don't know if we're all capable of it. i think some people enjoy putting others down as u said, whether that person is in our group or not, to give them more self esteem & i couldn't agree more, that is sad. although i think the rest of can see that what they're like & they're incapable of change since it's clear to see that they don't want to.
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