Why?
Something occured to me, just recently and its been bothering me ever since..I can't understand it.
Why others talk and bitch about unnecessary things?
Bringing up stories of the past?
Laughing at others because they say the wrong thing, but those who knew thats what they would say too, keep quiet and laugh and point with the others.
THE SNYDEY COMMENTS!!!!!
LITTLE DIGS!!!
A phrase meant in a harsh way, meant as a dig, laughed on top of, to cover it up.But made to make someone feel uncomfortable.
Is it because you are so insecure that you put others down to boost your own confidence not caring about what that will do to the other person. Are you that selfish?
When people have a genuine interest in the conversation and perhaps have gone away for 5minutes and come back to ask what it is your talking about- they get an abrupt "NOTHING!" Then you continue to talk about it.
I feel coming back from Aberdeen, being away from all this, has really emphasized just how pathetic people can be. How they feel putting others down, will make them feel better. If thats what you need, to feel good with yourself then its a really sad thing. Im sure everyone will be able to relate to this, because I admit there hve been times I have done it.. or being the subject of this.
Anyways im eighteen now, and I dont want to waste my time bitching and been put down by you or your friends. You need to think about it.
We say we are all good friends - BUT EVERYONE BITCHES ABOUT EVERYONE. Im getting sick of it. You think we'd get over it and just get on with having a good time rather than creating unecessary awkward atmospheres. Enjoying each others company.
Ive been let down by this recently. I hope you are all aware that I have made an extra effort to coming home, seeing friends, being on time, having a laugh. Im not asking for a 'well done', or a 'thanks' Im just saying that now i have made the effort maybe you all could too and quit the bitching. Imm sick of it and some of the time I dont enjoy the company as there are so many strange atmospheres and snyde comments floating about that it doesnt seem worth it.
Why others talk and bitch about unnecessary things?
Bringing up stories of the past?
Laughing at others because they say the wrong thing, but those who knew thats what they would say too, keep quiet and laugh and point with the others.
THE SNYDEY COMMENTS!!!!!
LITTLE DIGS!!!
A phrase meant in a harsh way, meant as a dig, laughed on top of, to cover it up.But made to make someone feel uncomfortable.
Is it because you are so insecure that you put others down to boost your own confidence not caring about what that will do to the other person. Are you that selfish?
When people have a genuine interest in the conversation and perhaps have gone away for 5minutes and come back to ask what it is your talking about- they get an abrupt "NOTHING!" Then you continue to talk about it.
I feel coming back from Aberdeen, being away from all this, has really emphasized just how pathetic people can be. How they feel putting others down, will make them feel better. If thats what you need, to feel good with yourself then its a really sad thing. Im sure everyone will be able to relate to this, because I admit there hve been times I have done it.. or being the subject of this.
Anyways im eighteen now, and I dont want to waste my time bitching and been put down by you or your friends. You need to think about it.
We say we are all good friends - BUT EVERYONE BITCHES ABOUT EVERYONE. Im getting sick of it. You think we'd get over it and just get on with having a good time rather than creating unecessary awkward atmospheres. Enjoying each others company.
Ive been let down by this recently. I hope you are all aware that I have made an extra effort to coming home, seeing friends, being on time, having a laugh. Im not asking for a 'well done', or a 'thanks' Im just saying that now i have made the effort maybe you all could too and quit the bitching. Imm sick of it and some of the time I dont enjoy the company as there are so many strange atmospheres and snyde comments floating about that it doesnt seem worth it.