I Seriously Doubt My Mental Health
I don't know if other people do this, but I occasionally think about my ex-boyfriends. I wonder about checking up on them. I've been told that's a horrible idea.
I thoroughly disagree. We're talking about people I had an emotional connection with, that I have memories, some even HAPPY memories, with. Why should it be odd to want to know if people from my past are doing well? Does breaking up with someone mean that you never, ever talk about or even think of them again?
I mean, I'm happily married. I don't want to renew the connection I had with these former boyfriends, but I do wonder occasionally if they're doing as well as I am. Is it crazy to hope they're happy too? Is it REALLY crazy to want to find out?
I thoroughly disagree. We're talking about people I had an emotional connection with, that I have memories, some even HAPPY memories, with. Why should it be odd to want to know if people from my past are doing well? Does breaking up with someone mean that you never, ever talk about or even think of them again?
I mean, I'm happily married. I don't want to renew the connection I had with these former boyfriends, but I do wonder occasionally if they're doing as well as I am. Is it crazy to hope they're happy too? Is it REALLY crazy to want to find out?