Today at lunch, I said: "The people who say they have no regrets make me wonder if they've really fucked up before, or if they're just sociopaths who don't care who they've hurt.  I don't tend to think of those folks as adults yet - like you aren't truly an adult until you know you've made a mess."

And I realized as it came out of my mouth that it ( Read more... )

Last night I dreamt that I was graduating from Cal State L.A., in a setting that was supposed to represent the school but was the weird mish-mash of dreams. Only the graduate candidates and their families were in attendance; it was a much smaller gathering than the one I actually had last year. The ceremony was indoors, in a space that was a somber ( Read more... )