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kirbyzero

Thoughts of the Sleepless...

May 27, 2006 03:42

It's 3:42 AM and I can't sleep. I've got thoughts and shit running through my head, I think that's what's keeping me awake. Here's the gist of it: my lack of any sort of relationship over the past five-some years of my young-adult life has started actually bugging me. Not to say I've had a high "tolerance" all along, it's always gotten to me. ( Read more... )

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pinkeroo May 27 2006, 14:31:46 UTC

Those "problems" that you listed are really not reasons someone would not date you, and the right type of person for you certainly wouldn't mind that. I've noticed that most of the time when people stop looking for a significant other, they find one. There are a billion people at UofM, I'm SURE you'll find someone. :)

goestoeleven May 27 2006, 18:47:40 UTC

Bah, those aren't problems. Honestly, would you want to be with someone who didn't like you liking those things? By refusing to pretend you're someone you're not, you may be limiting your "choices" at the moment, but on the other hand, you're helping prevent total mismatches. In my opinion, I'd rather have one good relationship than multiple mismatched ones.

jaraha May 28 2006, 01:42:09 UTC

Yeah, those things about you aren't really turnoffs. Well I'm not a girl so I couldn't really say for sure. But remember homecoming our junior year? A few of those pictures are in my sisters posterboards for her graduation party. A bunch of people have seen them, asking, "Hey, whose THAT guy?" So don't worry, your universal appeal is there.

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anonymous May 29 2006, 20:54:07 UTC

"endearing"

I haven't heard that word in a long time. I enjoy it

singwithbigfoot May 28 2006, 08:40:52 UTC

Hey, try not to get too down about it. I, of call people, would know. Bear in mind that I'm slightly older than you, so I've got an extra month and 16 days of singledom on you. And, yes, loneliness isn't always the finest of feelings, and I'm undoubtedly one of the largest cynics of all time when it comes to dating, but there's no use dwelling on it ( ... )

goestoeleven May 28 2006, 19:15:38 UTC

See, Brian here has a case of crippling self-deprecation.

I seriously doubt you're as 'romantically undesirable' as you think you are.

Sure, you're not Brad Pitt, but who is?

(Answer: Brad Pitt)