In regard to the last post
Yes, the "it's over" was in regard to my relationship. And in my previous posts, I left out some information because Mike asked me not to tell anyone. So I told my mom, because she needed the full story to give me advice, but I didn't tell anyone else because it wouldn't be fair. But now, I no longer have that obligation, and since I'm sure people
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There shouldn't be that much spite in a relationship (in reference to him saying something simply to piss you off), and someone REALLY shouldn't choose drinking over a girl, after he promises a girl that he will give up drinking (and smoking) for her. There is no good excuse for that.
I gather because you went out with him at all, that he's not a complete scum bag, but how you're describing him, his values are flat out in the wrong place and he needs to get his shit figured out. If the dude's not willing to give up alcohol for a few months without you, when he knows he's problematic when he's had some, he is really not worth your time or your grief. (Arguably he is worth a swift kick in the butt. Arguably. It'd be a thing for you though, and not for him, though I normally abhor violence. Another major part of this would be for the sheer joy of saying "swift kick in the butt" which is just a fun thing to say. Say it with me "swift kick in the butt!" I'd safely bet you're feeling marginally better already. There are few phrases more enjoyable to say.)
In any case, this message is an attempt at a transatlantic cyber-hug with pat on the back (less awkward than a real hug) for Kira. Here for you, buddy.
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