HELP ME FLIST WITH RECS
So weirdness has kind of happened.
As you know, I'm pretty kinky, hence the name and 99% of my fics being hard core porn. However, in real life I'm pretty vanilla. But boyfriend has just come out (and christ do I mean come out) with his own little confession.
Basically, he wants to be dommed. He explained it all to do with terrible treatment at school, etc, and hoped I wouldn't judge him.
And I was kind of like: "Um. Do you know what slash fiction is...?" /REVEALS EVERYTHING APART FROM USERNAME
Christ, I just spend two hours explaining to this guy that there are two types of domming that I've come across in fandom, one where you're really vicious and punching and shit and the nice fluffy kind of "I'll take care of everything for you~" stuff.
And then he was like "OH. I LIKE THE SECOND ONE. THERE'S SLASH FICTION OF THAT? CAN I READ SOME"
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I don't even. Should I? I mean, half my favourite fics are kinky meme fills about sub!Chekov and dom!Sulu (AND YES, I HAVE DISCOVERED THE IRONY OF RPING SULU FOR SO LONG INFECTING MY MIND) but I don't know if I'd be able to do it in real life. It sounds right up my street, tbh, as I'm usually hands on, but he's going to be trusting me with his ~everything~ and shit, and I'm not sure whether I can handle that...
Anon commenting is on if you're ashamed of liking sub/dom chulu - recs anyone? Preferably not mirror!verse, only 'cause mirror!verse tends to be bloodplay-y and I should not be trusted with sharp implements anyway.
:/ Chulu, you still own my heart when it comes to porn.
As you know, I'm pretty kinky, hence the name and 99% of my fics being hard core porn. However, in real life I'm pretty vanilla. But boyfriend has just come out (and christ do I mean come out) with his own little confession.
Basically, he wants to be dommed. He explained it all to do with terrible treatment at school, etc, and hoped I wouldn't judge him.
And I was kind of like: "Um. Do you know what slash fiction is...?" /REVEALS EVERYTHING APART FROM USERNAME
Christ, I just spend two hours explaining to this guy that there are two types of domming that I've come across in fandom, one where you're really vicious and punching and shit and the nice fluffy kind of "I'll take care of everything for you~" stuff.
And then he was like "OH. I LIKE THE SECOND ONE. THERE'S SLASH FICTION OF THAT? CAN I READ SOME"
:| :| :| :|
I don't even. Should I? I mean, half my favourite fics are kinky meme fills about sub!Chekov and dom!Sulu (AND YES, I HAVE DISCOVERED THE IRONY OF RPING SULU FOR SO LONG INFECTING MY MIND) but I don't know if I'd be able to do it in real life. It sounds right up my street, tbh, as I'm usually hands on, but he's going to be trusting me with his ~everything~ and shit, and I'm not sure whether I can handle that...
Anon commenting is on if you're ashamed of liking sub/dom chulu - recs anyone? Preferably not mirror!verse, only 'cause mirror!verse tends to be bloodplay-y and I should not be trusted with sharp implements anyway.
:/ Chulu, you still own my heart when it comes to porn.