Me, Bitter?

[kingfuraday]

Okay, it's 3am and I've finished my shift at the bar and it's been an interesting day. I went to my "real" job this morning and as I walked towards the front door four men in their 50s/60s walked out in white and red suits (a barbershop quartet) and I got a sinking feeling in my stomach--it's Valentines day, shit

Comments

[vertigo_xpress]

I feel like I shouldn't comment on this since I do have someone to spend V Day with. But we have all been there.

Consider this: you're six years single, and that's six years you could have spent in a bad situation, or several bad situations. More than once I've stuck around with guys when I knew it wasn't gonna last, and I've only done it because it made days like today easy. At least you're living honest.

[kingfuraday]

Thanks for giving me some added perspective mister. Much appreciated.

Food for Thought

[anonymous]

Duder, I googled "emo" and this journal entry came up.

Try this, think of the worst relationship you had, all the co-dependent bull shit hand wringing and self-censorship. Now, think about the bad sex you felt obligated to participate in and the painfully long silences and general dirth of meaningful conversation. Think of going through another day of that just for some fuckin' chocolate and a blow job.

Happy Valentine's Day :)

Re: Food for Thought

[kingfuraday]

Good point...Hmm, my LJ comes up when you google "emo"...Does that mean that it's whiney and something you'd readily sing along with or does it mean I'm a cute cuddly playtoy--that is also annoying?

Re: Food for Thought

[anonymous]

It means you've momentarily misplaced your ability to laugh, or at least spit venom (an excellent facsimile of humor during those uncomfortable moments), at the world.

I'd suggest throwing The Office in your DVD player or queing your iPod to SS skipping over the Garden State soundtrack and all the Bright Eyes mp3s for a day or two. ;)

[bearringsd]

Interesting...

drewbearsf had made the same observation on a previous post and used almost the exact same wording.

For what is worth...I've always though you were a pretty cool guy, kind of surprises me that you are still on the market. The right guy will come along sometime, I'm sure of it, in the meantime, it's cool that you are comfortable in your own skin. That is one blessing many never appreciate.

[kingfuraday]

Thanks Henry. Hugs buddy.

[abearius]

*sends you a lacy-edged Valentine being carried by two same-sex bluebirds*

[kingfuraday]

Such a sweetie. Hope you have fun this weekend with all the bears. Try not to get swamped in all the admiration and lust thrown yer way :)

[iahklu]

i hear ya...

*sigh*

[kingfuraday]

awww, here's a big ol' post v-day hug (and tug) for ya mister.

[iahklu]

hugs 'n' snugs back atcha! :-)