About the boyfriend, I think you should call him and find out what's going on. Be firm and ask him why he hasn't called since Wednesday, and that if there are any problems there they should be put out in the open. Since you're in a relationship with him, you deserve an answer. If he has any problems in his personal life you should be his confidant and the first one to know. Don't think that calling him shows that you're too desperate or too clingy---if he hasn't spoken to you since Wednesday, that is not a comfortable feeling. You shouldn't have to deal with that uncertainty.
I'm sorry Indiana didn't work out for you. Your major seems really cool and I know that's a good school for a lot of reasons, but I don't really know what it's like to be at a large university like that. You definitely get a lot of attention at small schools and may feel more comfortable amidst a more intimate community. I just hope the whole schooling situation works out...maybe you'll feel different about IU during sophomore year. In freshman year you have to deal with so much in terms of transitioning from place to place and meeting new people AND managing your work and schedule, so this year may go a little more smoothly.
I'm sorry Indiana didn't work out for you. Your major seems really cool and I know that's a good school for a lot of reasons, but I don't really know what it's like to be at a large university like that. You definitely get a lot of attention at small schools and may feel more comfortable amidst a more intimate community. I just hope the whole schooling situation works out...maybe you'll feel different about IU during sophomore year. In freshman year you have to deal with so much in terms of transitioning from place to place and meeting new people AND managing your work and schedule, so this year may go a little more smoothly.
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Thank you so much! i finally got to speak to him and it made me feel better in terms of that... and i appricate the feedback it means alot!
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