What do cheaters and cheetahs have in common?

Mar 03, 2010 12:47

A good friend of mine recently had his heart broken when his girlfriend of close to six years cheated on him ( Read more... )

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*edited anonymous March 5 2010, 10:07:49 UTC
Thank you for your reply. I appreciate it. Please dont take any of my comments as attacks for I truly do not have that intention.

Anyway, I agree that your blog is different. Some blogs are about music/fashion/books/cooking, while others are totally abt the writer's day to day routine and some are just pictorial blogs. Yours isnt a stagnant one. :)

I just think that 'we are what we write' and sometimes although I dont know you, I can sense the person you are. I wouldn't like to think that you are a different person when you write here.

It's just that from this entry (together with a couple others here and there from your journal), it convinces me more that you tend to be easily affected by insignificant events and that you'd spend 5 minutes of your precious time writing about it here when you can channel your talent to writing something more positive. Pessimistic perhaps? :(

And at times, I cant help but feel that you write a certain topic at a particular point of time because it's meant to be an attack to someone rather than an opinion.

Life's too short to be negative hana.

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Re: *edited kimmer12 March 6 2010, 05:41:59 UTC
I appreciate that you're writing all this with no ill-will. Now I can put my armour down, it's so heavy, it's been killing me carrying it!

I don't think I'm a pessimistic person, I used to be one, but I'm not anymore. But still, I'm not a happy-snappy type of person and if my writing reflects that, that's because it's who I am. This may sound like I have a supersized ego but I think there's a gravity to my personality that some people cannot appreciate.

And you're very wrong when you say I write to attack. My blog doesn't get hundreds of hits well I wouldn't know because I don't track but I highly doubt. So, why would I bother writing to attack? I just write because it crossed my mind, I thought about it, and here are my thoughts. If the "attacked" happened to read this, she might feel attacked but that's because she knows what she did.

But you're right when you say life's too short to be negative, I agree. But I also think life's too short to let fleeting moments of "insignificant events" just pass by and not have a think about it. There are big lessons in what's small, and what starts small can often lead to something big.

Thank you!

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