What do cheaters and cheetahs have in common?
A good friend of mine recently had his heart broken when his girlfriend of close to six years cheated on him.
Where it used to be mostly the guys who were known as the players, it seems, in this day and age, the title "player" is no longer pegged to just one gender. When we have people like Lady Gaga proclaiming in songs, "I'm a free bitch, baby!", it's hard for women not to think that they are in fact free bitches and will do as they please. They come, they go, they stay, they flow, they're up, they go down and boy do they go places.
It's not that I don't think women shouldn't do what they will. The problem here is that free will must be accompanied with a sensible level of morality. Yes, do as you will, but do stop short of fucking someone over. It's just not nice and consequences of that tend not to pan out too nicely. It's not about being a nice girl for the guys, it's about being a decent person.
So the answer to my question "what do cheaters and cheetahs have in common?" is that they never change their spots. If you're a cheater, get help, or else, get out of your relationship so you are free to roam.
Where it used to be mostly the guys who were known as the players, it seems, in this day and age, the title "player" is no longer pegged to just one gender. When we have people like Lady Gaga proclaiming in songs, "I'm a free bitch, baby!", it's hard for women not to think that they are in fact free bitches and will do as they please. They come, they go, they stay, they flow, they're up, they go down and boy do they go places.
It's not that I don't think women shouldn't do what they will. The problem here is that free will must be accompanied with a sensible level of morality. Yes, do as you will, but do stop short of fucking someone over. It's just not nice and consequences of that tend not to pan out too nicely. It's not about being a nice girl for the guys, it's about being a decent person.
So the answer to my question "what do cheaters and cheetahs have in common?" is that they never change their spots. If you're a cheater, get help, or else, get out of your relationship so you are free to roam.