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What a fucked up day and it's only 11:30. Not sure if it's a good fucked up day or a bad one yet. Caroline had to drop her car in for repairs today. So last night she's all "Do you wanna meet up for breakfast." I shouldn't have agreed, I'm not a morning person and in hindsight everything was set up for a train wreck.
Within about five seconds of getting in the car I've sussed out what's going on. Caroline couldn't navigate a toy train around a circular track with a sat nav. It sounds harsh, but it's true. I've spent the past month and a half having to go places with her just because she can't get there and back on her own, even with a sat nav.
She knows full well that I'm just about fed up of this so she's asked me to breakfast, neglecting to mention that she has no clue how to get to the garage to drop the car off. The first thing she said to me is "Do you know where it is" followed by a whole load of moaning about the satnav. So whatever.
We drop the car off, and head into town to get something to eat, all well and good. Then it starts.....................the moaning and complaining. Literally we haven't found somewhere to eat and she's moaning about the food. Now before I go further, understand this, with Caroline it's not about pushing the right buttons, it's about avoiding pushing any buttons because the slightest thing will set her off.
So she's complaining and moaning as usual and I've had two months of this so I just casually said "Well then if there's no where you want to eat let's just go home." Big mistake, now she's moaning in her whiney high pitched voice. I don't know how the conversation got around to me saying it but at some point I stated, quite calmly, that the only reason I was there was to make sure she could get to the garage.
That was it after that, now she's offended and she's having a dig at me, well more of a dig than usual because she's always having a dig. I don't do arguments so I keep my mouth shut and eventually she storms off, much to my relief.
Then the problems REALLY start. I've got her satnav, so I have to meet up with her to give it back. By this time I'm heading to tesco to get some bacon, maple smoked bacon, good shit. So I tell her this. She ignores this and decides we're meeting somewhere else, walks straight past Tesco and up to the library.
I am not giving a shit at this point, I'm after my bacon. So she calls demands to know where I am and I tell her that, shock, I'm in tesco. She then starts whining about having walked past it. Then she phones up and she's got that whiney concerned school girl tone in her voice and wants to talk things over.
I don't see that there was anything to talk about. I stated an opinion, which wasn't going to change and she'd been offended by it, which wasn't going to change and to be honest I just wasn't in the mood to deal with it.
To be honest I'd fed up of being around her, it's the endless complaining and the endless....................neediness. Especially annoying is the way she treats me like I'm her boyfriend and she's possessive with it as well, like, no mention of any other woman can be made because she's so damn insecure and all she'll talk about is how bad other people are and gossip.