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ok..ermm..I have a question? How can someone NOT be homophobic..and at the same time tell someone NOT to be gay..or bi..that they shouldn't even think about it? I mean...thats like..contradicting yourself. Well..I guess your wondering why I'm asking..well..because I have always known I like girls..I just never said anything..actually...I said..NO..that I was straight..cuz in the area I came from..it wasn't really acceptable..you were "fucked up" if you wern't straight..so I guess I just kinda learned to keep my mouth shut and agree with what people thought was right. but recently..I have known alot more gay and bi people..and its like...not wrong. I was still in the habit of saying I was straight though..so I havn't told anyone as of yet. I think Dana knew..but she never said anything to me. Anyways, I decided to tell Zack..and he didn't seem to take it too well. Its like..hes taking like because I like females as well as males..that I for some reason..I don't like him. =/ which is so not true. I just never felt the need to rule out half the population as possiblities. I mean...what do people have against bis? Well..Zack is kinda the reason I asked that question..cuz he says he is NOT homophobic..but he asts like he is. He is SO against me likeing women..that I mean....hes acting like a homophobic.