Metamorphous

Jun 10, 2009 01:04

Growing a friendship should always be the first step; you don't want to end up with someone you cannot bear to be around. You want to find those grounds that are common and uncommon between you, so when its time to tread across them, you know what kind of shoes to wear.

Illustrating your feelings as they slowly metamorphous into more than friendship is not always easy. I have found that being honest is the quickest and easiest way to show yourself, but nine out of ten people will tell you different. Once you have hit that certain friendship threshold with some people, you cannot turn back.

A simple text message, an IM, or even awkwardly short phone calls are all easy methods. Romantic may not always be your best path, especially when you are uncertain if that person feels anything similar to what you feel. And if they don't, thus begins your awkward friendship that will eventually and slowly break apart. Thankfully, I have not put myself in that kind of position, the past is always a fun plethora of memories to learn from.

Night after night I wonder why I can't just be alone and be happy. I can be, but I want to have that relationship in my life that means something. And I have come to learn, you cannot just sit around and expect that person to come back to you, you have to take the initiative. Someone else could capitalize on your laziness. As its happened before, it will not happen again. I still don't know if he likes me or not, he never really did say. I strongly think he doesn't feel the same, but either or, I will hopefully always have his friendship ~_~_~
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