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[kawaiirae]

I want to bring a topic up for discussion. The other day Derek and I were discussing consummating marriages. I don't remember how this came up, but whatever. So anyway, he said you're not truly consummating the marriage unless you have sex sans a condom. I think that's bogus. Why can't you consummate the marriage while being safe? What if you get

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[pseudogoth]

i think sex in general is consumating, i don't think it is dependent on a condom or not. anyway, catholics denounce birth control of all sorts, so that is why he is saying the no condom thing. he should also be anti-birth control pill then, too, in theory.

[kawaiirae]

yeah, I think sex in general works, too. but the whole "I'm Catholic and therefore won't use condoms or birth control" theory fails with Derek because that's never stopped us before.

[pseudogoth]

you should tell him that, or tell him that sex before marriage is bad in the eyes of god.

[kawaiirae]

I did! I totally did! And he just says "it's not truly consummating if you use a condom." how can I argue with that?

[pseudogoth]

it's not worth arguing over. boys are stupid. the relationship was consumated when your virginity went bye-bye. that's how i feel anyway, the condom plays no part in consumation.

[kawaiirae]

I just think he's a hypocrite. damn hypocrite! :)

[pseudogoth]

there's a little bit of hypocrisy in us all, but his argument screams hypocrisy.