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when are you going to pull your head out of your ass and stop acting like everyone is here to please you? when is it enough to get you to shut the hell up for five minutes and actually listen to some one else? it doesn't always involve you, it doesn't always revolve around you, and it sure as fuck doesn't need to be told to every person you come across.
people have big mouths when they feel insecure about their own thoughts and opinions. by telling rumors and shit, you're merely taking a poll until you find enough people to validate how you feel or to make you feel better. "she's such a slut" will be repeated until you hear enough people say "yeah, she is" and not add you into the title. thereby making you better than everyone else.
people treat other people like shit for a few reasons. a) they can. you allow some one to walk all over you just a few times, and they're going to do it until the day you die. b) once again, insecurities. put some one else in their place, you're place looks a hell of a lot better. at least you're somewhat higher on the food chain. c) ignorance. you don't realize that not everyone thinks you're god and you have decided that those weaker than you should be treated as such.
so many things are blown out of proportion and taken far too seriously. you spend so much time worrying about the things you have no control over that when it gets to the heavy shit, the stuff you need to make right or wrong, you can't seem to comprehend the situation. picking up bread took a two hour thought process until you were able to cope with that decision. paying rent and feeding the dog are decisions that seem to make no impact on you. we'll just forget things like that exist.
i'm sick of people expecting everyone else to treat them with kid gloves. so many are dragging their feet, kicking and screaming, as they are forced from all comfort levels and tossed unemotionally into the real world. where there are bills and deadlines and emotions that have to be disregarded. no one is going to take care of you for the rest of your life. eventually, everyone will have spent so much time and money on you, they'll die and you'll be left holding... well, not much. it runs out. patience and time and money and anyone actually giving a fuck about you and what you're going to cry about next... it all runs out.
suck it up. grow up. if you were to fall off the face of the earth tomorrow, it would be a mere hiccup in our day to day lives before things returned to normal.
people have big mouths when they feel insecure about their own thoughts and opinions. by telling rumors and shit, you're merely taking a poll until you find enough people to validate how you feel or to make you feel better. "she's such a slut" will be repeated until you hear enough people say "yeah, she is" and not add you into the title. thereby making you better than everyone else.
people treat other people like shit for a few reasons. a) they can. you allow some one to walk all over you just a few times, and they're going to do it until the day you die. b) once again, insecurities. put some one else in their place, you're place looks a hell of a lot better. at least you're somewhat higher on the food chain. c) ignorance. you don't realize that not everyone thinks you're god and you have decided that those weaker than you should be treated as such.
so many things are blown out of proportion and taken far too seriously. you spend so much time worrying about the things you have no control over that when it gets to the heavy shit, the stuff you need to make right or wrong, you can't seem to comprehend the situation. picking up bread took a two hour thought process until you were able to cope with that decision. paying rent and feeding the dog are decisions that seem to make no impact on you. we'll just forget things like that exist.
i'm sick of people expecting everyone else to treat them with kid gloves. so many are dragging their feet, kicking and screaming, as they are forced from all comfort levels and tossed unemotionally into the real world. where there are bills and deadlines and emotions that have to be disregarded. no one is going to take care of you for the rest of your life. eventually, everyone will have spent so much time and money on you, they'll die and you'll be left holding... well, not much. it runs out. patience and time and money and anyone actually giving a fuck about you and what you're going to cry about next... it all runs out.
suck it up. grow up. if you were to fall off the face of the earth tomorrow, it would be a mere hiccup in our day to day lives before things returned to normal.