worn out :-)
Between B's presence over the weekend and the Game Day and a full Maids/commute day, I was busy and then worn out. I slept a bunch overnight, more than my usual six hours.
Now it is Tuesday morning, I'm at the house by myself, I'm teleworking today. I have time to stretch before breakfast, and should have time later for either lifting or running.
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Somewhere in that stretch of weekend time, the young man I met in Beverly Hills in December called me, wanting to schedule his summer visit to DC (he's attending a family wedding) in a way that included me, but I was too busy to talk at that moment and said I'd get back to him, which I haven't yet. On the call he startled me by wanting to visit me for a period of weeks, because the flight would be cheaper. I said it would be more like a weekend at most but that I was busy at the moment and would get back to him. It's weird that he thought an evening hookup together would lead to him staying at my house and/or K's condo for weeks. I barely know him. I'd think after one date together that didn't end in a sleepover, agreeing to something beyond an overnight sleepover for our next date would be unreasonably ambitious at this stage. Merely his proposing visiting for weeks makes me think that hosting him at all is probably a bad idea. He's not showing an understanding of boundaries, which is important to me in selecting friends and potential partners.
Or maybe from his point of view, it was a long shot, but worth asking?
I then forgot he'd called me for a couple days until I saw his call listed in the recents on my phone after I received a voice mail from somebody else. Now that I'm reflecting upon it, not sure I care to call him back to follow through on this ...
Not everybody you have fun with for one evening is compatible for more, Bug.
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I did get some Time to Self on Saturday afternoon for toys but crashed early, and then on Sunday morning I had to clean house and refill the hot tub and get on over to Kent's. The group played a game of Wingspan, and then a game of 5-player MtG. Was fun!
When B has been here recently, he's been deeply interested in snuggles with me, as though I've lit an ancient fire, I think he doesn't get many snuggles from his husband or T anymore. I love snuggles :-)
I expect B to come over again tonight, then we'll commute together tomorrow. Then a busy 48 hours Thursday morning <--> Saturday morning with medical appointments and T's arrival, then T's departure. Saturday afternoon B's husband will show up, so I won't see B at all for at least a week. I'll get a break!
Although I could head to the condo on Saturday afternoon after dropping off B, get a haircut, and hit the spanking party, I might just want a big block of time to self, wherever I am.
The following isn't a complaint, just an observation --> since B's condo "burned down" and he's been stuck in the hotel indefinitely, he's naturally wanted to spend as much time as he can at the house instead. I've been accommodating, but it has taken up a lot of my social time and social energy. I've enjoyed having him around, but it can wear me out. For example, I've not been pursuing time with David like I otherwise would've since MAL. Though, David hasn't pursued me either. People with multiple partners are busy ;-)
I do need a haircut soon, but I'm not sure about the spanking party or any other socializing, perhaps I'll go to the condo to check on it and chill and return to the house after one night and then just relax at the house ... I don't have to decide today.
OK, will get up and stretch at 7:30am, start work at 8:30am, and see how the day goes.
Now it is Tuesday morning, I'm at the house by myself, I'm teleworking today. I have time to stretch before breakfast, and should have time later for either lifting or running.
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Somewhere in that stretch of weekend time, the young man I met in Beverly Hills in December called me, wanting to schedule his summer visit to DC (he's attending a family wedding) in a way that included me, but I was too busy to talk at that moment and said I'd get back to him, which I haven't yet. On the call he startled me by wanting to visit me for a period of weeks, because the flight would be cheaper. I said it would be more like a weekend at most but that I was busy at the moment and would get back to him. It's weird that he thought an evening hookup together would lead to him staying at my house and/or K's condo for weeks. I barely know him. I'd think after one date together that didn't end in a sleepover, agreeing to something beyond an overnight sleepover for our next date would be unreasonably ambitious at this stage. Merely his proposing visiting for weeks makes me think that hosting him at all is probably a bad idea. He's not showing an understanding of boundaries, which is important to me in selecting friends and potential partners.
Or maybe from his point of view, it was a long shot, but worth asking?
I then forgot he'd called me for a couple days until I saw his call listed in the recents on my phone after I received a voice mail from somebody else. Now that I'm reflecting upon it, not sure I care to call him back to follow through on this ...
Not everybody you have fun with for one evening is compatible for more, Bug.
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I did get some Time to Self on Saturday afternoon for toys but crashed early, and then on Sunday morning I had to clean house and refill the hot tub and get on over to Kent's. The group played a game of Wingspan, and then a game of 5-player MtG. Was fun!
When B has been here recently, he's been deeply interested in snuggles with me, as though I've lit an ancient fire, I think he doesn't get many snuggles from his husband or T anymore. I love snuggles :-)
I expect B to come over again tonight, then we'll commute together tomorrow. Then a busy 48 hours Thursday morning <--> Saturday morning with medical appointments and T's arrival, then T's departure. Saturday afternoon B's husband will show up, so I won't see B at all for at least a week. I'll get a break!
Although I could head to the condo on Saturday afternoon after dropping off B, get a haircut, and hit the spanking party, I might just want a big block of time to self, wherever I am.
The following isn't a complaint, just an observation --> since B's condo "burned down" and he's been stuck in the hotel indefinitely, he's naturally wanted to spend as much time as he can at the house instead. I've been accommodating, but it has taken up a lot of my social time and social energy. I've enjoyed having him around, but it can wear me out. For example, I've not been pursuing time with David like I otherwise would've since MAL. Though, David hasn't pursued me either. People with multiple partners are busy ;-)
I do need a haircut soon, but I'm not sure about the spanking party or any other socializing, perhaps I'll go to the condo to check on it and chill and return to the house after one night and then just relax at the house ... I don't have to decide today.
OK, will get up and stretch at 7:30am, start work at 8:30am, and see how the day goes.