phone therapy
The house is feeling empty to me after my trip, so last night I spoke with K and B, tonight I spoke with Ben and T. I tried to have a spontaneous dinner with B tonight, but that didn't work -- spontaneous doesn't always work. I may try to have dinner with somebody else tomorrow night, or maybe I'll drive my laptop to a repair appointment. Sounds like Ben is busy through the weekend -- although he's local I don't see him as often as you might think, because we both have so many other relationships and responsibilities.
T surprised me, he said he's returning on Tuesday of next week, usually he doesn't return until the Friday. He'll be here for almost three weeks this time, but again he'll have some business travel while he's here.
Tonight I did formally ask Ben for permission to remain unlocked until I start to feel hornier about being locked up again. I feel I'm going through a non-horny patch and I want to allow my willy to be free and have more frequent orgasms so that getting locked up makes me feel restrained again. I think the combo of work stress and smoke stress pretty much killed my libido before I went on vacation. I did have some sexy fun with K one night, but usually I'm hornier on my weekends/vacations.
So, unlocked for a while, then hopefully locking up will be fun again.
And before long the house will be filled with people again. Meanwhile, at least the cats are happy to see me :-)
T surprised me, he said he's returning on Tuesday of next week, usually he doesn't return until the Friday. He'll be here for almost three weeks this time, but again he'll have some business travel while he's here.
Tonight I did formally ask Ben for permission to remain unlocked until I start to feel hornier about being locked up again. I feel I'm going through a non-horny patch and I want to allow my willy to be free and have more frequent orgasms so that getting locked up makes me feel restrained again. I think the combo of work stress and smoke stress pretty much killed my libido before I went on vacation. I did have some sexy fun with K one night, but usually I'm hornier on my weekends/vacations.
So, unlocked for a while, then hopefully locking up will be fun again.
And before long the house will be filled with people again. Meanwhile, at least the cats are happy to see me :-)