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My mum cracked the shits at me because i woke her up on both Saturday and Sunday morning, my alarm went off on saturday, and i forgot my worskhirt on sunday...
so now she wrote this...
as an email because she couldnt do it any other way.
Just to let you know I am very unhappy with your continued selfishness and failure to acknowledge or take any responsibility for anything
I told you last week that I would like to be shown at least as much respect as you show for DD. Your room, the lounge and your study were spotless on Tuesday, even vacuumed ready for me to shampoo the carpet. Alas your floor is again covered in crap, you did not clean the study after sewing. (Something you did to please DD at the expense of your history homework) and there are 3 dirty cups in different places around the lounge as well as a dirty plate and fork on the floor by the computer. Not good enough.
As I drove you to school on Friday, (because you cant get out of bed because you spent time doing stuff for DD) you mentioned how fantastic it was that you had holidays and could relax and sleep as it had been a long term and you were exhausted. I then told you how I felt the same with all the work I had, how I found it so hard to get up in the morning and I was looking forward to sleeping in. You spoilt that for me both days of the weekend. You could have called and asked me to put out your work uniform, but again drama rehearsals and other things were more important to you that how I might feel. There is no use saying “I’m sorry” you say it all the time, if you meant it you would stop and think. Sorry doesn’t mean much when you hear it as often as I do coming out of your mouth.
You get shitty with me, yet I have been told by another parent that the great DD didn’t even look at your costumes on Friday and that you were at school at 9.00 am Saturday to show him. I bet you wouldn’t have got up for anyone else. I bet you just went along like the little sheep you are where he is concerned. Something to be proud of!
I suggest you think of some strategies to improve your relationship with me. Priorities being your homework, your room management, making sure you have what you need when you go to days and balancing drama without it taking over all our lives or I will not be signing on for World Tour. I have had enough and am at the end of my patience and refuse to be part of something that is for me a negative experience. You have the power to make it positive for everyone but you have to start putting as much effort into everyday things, and not taking what you have for granted. I can’t keep doing it all and you doing nothing. Talk to dad if you want, maybe he can help you work out something. Because as I said I think I am more important than everyone in your life except dad and I am sick of you treating me as if I am someone who is on this earth to pick you up, drop you off, deliver on the “I wants” and make sure you look good for that Irish fuck wit.
its scary...because it's true
so now she wrote this...
as an email because she couldnt do it any other way.
Just to let you know I am very unhappy with your continued selfishness and failure to acknowledge or take any responsibility for anything
I told you last week that I would like to be shown at least as much respect as you show for DD. Your room, the lounge and your study were spotless on Tuesday, even vacuumed ready for me to shampoo the carpet. Alas your floor is again covered in crap, you did not clean the study after sewing. (Something you did to please DD at the expense of your history homework) and there are 3 dirty cups in different places around the lounge as well as a dirty plate and fork on the floor by the computer. Not good enough.
As I drove you to school on Friday, (because you cant get out of bed because you spent time doing stuff for DD) you mentioned how fantastic it was that you had holidays and could relax and sleep as it had been a long term and you were exhausted. I then told you how I felt the same with all the work I had, how I found it so hard to get up in the morning and I was looking forward to sleeping in. You spoilt that for me both days of the weekend. You could have called and asked me to put out your work uniform, but again drama rehearsals and other things were more important to you that how I might feel. There is no use saying “I’m sorry” you say it all the time, if you meant it you would stop and think. Sorry doesn’t mean much when you hear it as often as I do coming out of your mouth.
You get shitty with me, yet I have been told by another parent that the great DD didn’t even look at your costumes on Friday and that you were at school at 9.00 am Saturday to show him. I bet you wouldn’t have got up for anyone else. I bet you just went along like the little sheep you are where he is concerned. Something to be proud of!
I suggest you think of some strategies to improve your relationship with me. Priorities being your homework, your room management, making sure you have what you need when you go to days and balancing drama without it taking over all our lives or I will not be signing on for World Tour. I have had enough and am at the end of my patience and refuse to be part of something that is for me a negative experience. You have the power to make it positive for everyone but you have to start putting as much effort into everyday things, and not taking what you have for granted. I can’t keep doing it all and you doing nothing. Talk to dad if you want, maybe he can help you work out something. Because as I said I think I am more important than everyone in your life except dad and I am sick of you treating me as if I am someone who is on this earth to pick you up, drop you off, deliver on the “I wants” and make sure you look good for that Irish fuck wit.
its scary...because it's true