Of being a doosh
Hey,
So the other day i finally saw a friend (guy) of mine that I haven't been able to get a hold of for months. Let me start over: in the fall I tried getting a hold of my friend, (let's call him doosh) no reply to my phone messages, no reply to my msn messages. I went over randomly to find him home, he was stressed from school so i forgave his ignoring me. I then dropped off a xmas gift, which was hand made by myself and a friend. THis was followed by another month and a half of him ignoring me, phone messages and msn messages.
When i saw my friend at a mutual friends concert last week he decided to tell me that he purposefully wasn't returning my calls because of the tone of voice i had left the messages in, and also that he hadn't even tried on the gift i made him, and nor did he even taste the gluten free cookies i made special for him. So Doosh then says, "now that's out of the way" implying that we can be all chummy again. Then says he'll come over on tuesday evening to see my new apartment and meet my new kitty. Did he show up? no. Did he respond to my phone calls or texts when i tried to find out if he was coming over? No.
So really, is this doosh a friend of mine? or am I fooling myself into thinking that a friendship from grade 9 until present is worth nothing now becuase he rejected my gift and chooses to ignore me.
I think it's best that I walk away from him.. but geez! I used to think of this guy as my best friend!
So the other day i finally saw a friend (guy) of mine that I haven't been able to get a hold of for months. Let me start over: in the fall I tried getting a hold of my friend, (let's call him doosh) no reply to my phone messages, no reply to my msn messages. I went over randomly to find him home, he was stressed from school so i forgave his ignoring me. I then dropped off a xmas gift, which was hand made by myself and a friend. THis was followed by another month and a half of him ignoring me, phone messages and msn messages.
When i saw my friend at a mutual friends concert last week he decided to tell me that he purposefully wasn't returning my calls because of the tone of voice i had left the messages in, and also that he hadn't even tried on the gift i made him, and nor did he even taste the gluten free cookies i made special for him. So Doosh then says, "now that's out of the way" implying that we can be all chummy again. Then says he'll come over on tuesday evening to see my new apartment and meet my new kitty. Did he show up? no. Did he respond to my phone calls or texts when i tried to find out if he was coming over? No.
So really, is this doosh a friend of mine? or am I fooling myself into thinking that a friendship from grade 9 until present is worth nothing now becuase he rejected my gift and chooses to ignore me.
I think it's best that I walk away from him.. but geez! I used to think of this guy as my best friend!