Reopening: No good deed goes unpunished apparently.
Guess who's back? I've had no one to talk to about my issues for over a year, be it because of losing 2 friend groups, or the remaining friends I do have having their own issues. I've decided to finally reopen this spot.
So, what happened, might you be asking? Dealing with a relentless ragebaby that can't handle jackall not going his way, and constantly being negative over the smallest things, to the point no one can enjoy shit. Oh, and his "Mom" too. I say Mom because it's a grown ass woman (he's a grown ass man) who buys him games, and constantly buys others games trying to get them to play with him, and excusing every shitty thing he does.
They were also part of one of those friend groups I mentioned. Imagine that.
The Problem: Ragebaby.
His NotGirlfriend: Green.
Me and Ragebaby have been having bad blood ever since an accident I caused in Project Zomboid. Dude was livid and screaming at me, even though we were able to roll the server state back a few hours. Green took his side and was screaming too, and has been a bitch ever since.
Well, I didn't know it was him, but we were RPing and a Luan Loud decided to put paint bombs all over the city, calling herself "The Jester". I asked if it was at the library, he said yes, so I ran with it. I got the idea that my own evil forces would use this, painting their robots to be Red and Black, and taking CCTV footage to get her voice/laugh and play it from the helmets of the robots. Make it look like she had painted targets to destroy, and make people severely question the Louds and the Hero's Guild, since he's part of it.
Welp, Ragebaby's friend dings me and says that Ragebaby is losing his shit. Keep in mind: Till the day before this I didn't know it was him. He had circumvented my block and rather than report his ass for it I just went with it, half-hoping he was cool now. Even tried to put more focus on his thing with my thing. He was not.
I get called into a private meeting after exchanging some words with him about the entire deal. This dude doesn't wanna work things out, dude wants it to go nuclear immediately. Given my past with this scenario, even with as polite and calm as I'm being, IRL I'm fucking shaking from anxiety. My first offer: If he's not cool with it I can just rewind and pull the event. No dice. Dude wants to drag it out. Fine.
I make my side known, including my having blocked him, and when he tries to pretend "but I didn't KNOW it was you!", I point out the fact that, actually, I had all my handles linked on my profile. There's no way he couldn't have seen it when RPing with me. I even ask the dude if he could link his handles so I don't end up interacting with him again, and Green pipes up telling me that I'm being talking shit, when the admin of the room tells her I'm not, but I should stop hammering it in he should do that. I apologize.
Things are wrapping up nicely and suddenly Green pipes up saying that the shit is at my feet for interracting with him after finding out who it was. Ragebaby furthers this and says "I have no problem RPing with you, I just don't like smear you tried telling people we know". Old me would have taken the bait. People are telling them to calm down, back off, and I say straiught up "I'm here to fix this situation and have some fun, not deal with drama. If this is gonna get personal then I'm out."
Why didn't I take the bait? I don't give a fuck what Ragebaby and Green think of me. They're terrible, hyperaggressive asshats that I want nothing to do with. I'm sick of Ragebaby's shitty behavior and I'm sick of Green coddling him every time he does something terrible. Fuck him and her and I'm not losing my place of fun trying to work things out with them.
Funny thing is, dude ran his own chat, till people took it over from him and kicked him out. I originally felt sorry for him since I had something the same happen to me. Now I can tell the bastard fully deserved it with how much of a control freak he is and how much he acts like an overaggressive child, and he does it to every job he gets hired at too. I can't tell you the amount of times I've wanted to tell this son of a bitch that maybe he could keep a job if he'd stop yelling at and being sarcastic with every boss he has. Fuck.
So, what happened, might you be asking? Dealing with a relentless ragebaby that can't handle jackall not going his way, and constantly being negative over the smallest things, to the point no one can enjoy shit. Oh, and his "Mom" too. I say Mom because it's a grown ass woman (he's a grown ass man) who buys him games, and constantly buys others games trying to get them to play with him, and excusing every shitty thing he does.
They were also part of one of those friend groups I mentioned. Imagine that.
The Problem: Ragebaby.
His NotGirlfriend: Green.
Me and Ragebaby have been having bad blood ever since an accident I caused in Project Zomboid. Dude was livid and screaming at me, even though we were able to roll the server state back a few hours. Green took his side and was screaming too, and has been a bitch ever since.
Well, I didn't know it was him, but we were RPing and a Luan Loud decided to put paint bombs all over the city, calling herself "The Jester". I asked if it was at the library, he said yes, so I ran with it. I got the idea that my own evil forces would use this, painting their robots to be Red and Black, and taking CCTV footage to get her voice/laugh and play it from the helmets of the robots. Make it look like she had painted targets to destroy, and make people severely question the Louds and the Hero's Guild, since he's part of it.
Welp, Ragebaby's friend dings me and says that Ragebaby is losing his shit. Keep in mind: Till the day before this I didn't know it was him. He had circumvented my block and rather than report his ass for it I just went with it, half-hoping he was cool now. Even tried to put more focus on his thing with my thing. He was not.
I get called into a private meeting after exchanging some words with him about the entire deal. This dude doesn't wanna work things out, dude wants it to go nuclear immediately. Given my past with this scenario, even with as polite and calm as I'm being, IRL I'm fucking shaking from anxiety. My first offer: If he's not cool with it I can just rewind and pull the event. No dice. Dude wants to drag it out. Fine.
I make my side known, including my having blocked him, and when he tries to pretend "but I didn't KNOW it was you!", I point out the fact that, actually, I had all my handles linked on my profile. There's no way he couldn't have seen it when RPing with me. I even ask the dude if he could link his handles so I don't end up interacting with him again, and Green pipes up telling me that I'm being talking shit, when the admin of the room tells her I'm not, but I should stop hammering it in he should do that. I apologize.
Things are wrapping up nicely and suddenly Green pipes up saying that the shit is at my feet for interracting with him after finding out who it was. Ragebaby furthers this and says "I have no problem RPing with you, I just don't like smear you tried telling people we know". Old me would have taken the bait. People are telling them to calm down, back off, and I say straiught up "I'm here to fix this situation and have some fun, not deal with drama. If this is gonna get personal then I'm out."
Why didn't I take the bait? I don't give a fuck what Ragebaby and Green think of me. They're terrible, hyperaggressive asshats that I want nothing to do with. I'm sick of Ragebaby's shitty behavior and I'm sick of Green coddling him every time he does something terrible. Fuck him and her and I'm not losing my place of fun trying to work things out with them.
Funny thing is, dude ran his own chat, till people took it over from him and kicked him out. I originally felt sorry for him since I had something the same happen to me. Now I can tell the bastard fully deserved it with how much of a control freak he is and how much he acts like an overaggressive child, and he does it to every job he gets hired at too. I can't tell you the amount of times I've wanted to tell this son of a bitch that maybe he could keep a job if he'd stop yelling at and being sarcastic with every boss he has. Fuck.