A FRIEND IS ..
Good friends are precious. They support you, listen to you, and stand by you no matter what ..
I read this article written by a girl named "Trixie" and the entire thing is somewhat true.
Many people come into our lives throughout a lifetime. Some people we meet and never remember. Others pass into our lives for a short time, yet leave a lasting memory. Yet others, the few and far between, become a part of our everyday selves. They're the people you can share your entire being with. Your hopes, your fears, your everyday mundane happenings. These are the people you come to count on in good times, in bad times and the times in between. These are the best of friends. Friends you know will be in your life throughout time.
At least that's what you assume. You never have a reason to believe it will be any different. But people change. Some for the better, some for the worse, and sometimes as a result, friends can go their separate ways. It is sad to realise you've grown apart. It hurts to find you may have actually done something to end the friendship. It's devastating to learn that your friend no longer wants to be a part of your life, no matter what the reason. But especially if the reason is one you believe to be trivial.
However, you should always keep in mind that people come into your life for a reason. Some are meant to stay forever. Others are here only to teach you or to help you through something, or you were in theirs to teach or to help them. Even when a friend is no longer in your life, if you were truly friends, you should value what they gave you from themselves. There are always lessons to be learned.
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knowing the fact you were responsible for many friendship losses in your life because "you couldn't be fucked" or the fact its just didn't work out, makes you really appreciate each and every one of those friends/friendships and what they have done for you, even its its something so little. :)
and it saddens me to think that "friends aren't forever" even if you try so hard to hold to that friendship. if it isn't meant to be, then it just isn't. so sad, but true.
there is only one friendship that i know of that will always last forever and she should know who she is! no matter the physical distance between us, we're always close, always connected. in my eyes, you are one of the kind and truly my best friend. i love you always, K.A. ;)
"friends are like puzzle if one goes away, that special piece can never be replaced and the puzzle will never be whole again .."
♥