Special Friends
I have a question for all of you non exhistant readers out there.
How can you tell if starting a relationship with certain people could have a positive outcome or an extreme negative one?
Being more than friends with someone who you're close too but wanting something totally more...is it really for the better? When you want to be with someone, you instantly know. It's like a little car signal going off in your brain. It just automatically ticks, and it just hits you in the face. But what if it's something that you think you want but turns out to be a complete disaster? The friendship is ruined which makes the heartbreak twice as worse. Unless you stay friends(which is very hard to do if you want things to go completely back to normal). I mean, it could be awkward but not if your friendship is strong enough.
And what's with falling head over heels with a person, when in the reality of it, you can't stand them at all? All you do is argue, you get sick of each other after a matter of hours, and your interests contradict eachother in every size, shape and form. But still, you can't get enough of them. Even when you're absolutely positive that you would die(not literally, just metaphorically speaking) if you were put in a relationship with this person, you would still...well, die, to start one.
Some people date their close friends and go straight back to normal in the end. Others lose a big chunk of their lives out of it. Some just try and then get sick of it and let go. And others(like myself) don't even get that far. We just sit, and wait, and hope, that through the impossibility of it all, something will grow out of a smothered bud.
How can you tell if starting a relationship with certain people could have a positive outcome or an extreme negative one?
Being more than friends with someone who you're close too but wanting something totally more...is it really for the better? When you want to be with someone, you instantly know. It's like a little car signal going off in your brain. It just automatically ticks, and it just hits you in the face. But what if it's something that you think you want but turns out to be a complete disaster? The friendship is ruined which makes the heartbreak twice as worse. Unless you stay friends(which is very hard to do if you want things to go completely back to normal). I mean, it could be awkward but not if your friendship is strong enough.
And what's with falling head over heels with a person, when in the reality of it, you can't stand them at all? All you do is argue, you get sick of each other after a matter of hours, and your interests contradict eachother in every size, shape and form. But still, you can't get enough of them. Even when you're absolutely positive that you would die(not literally, just metaphorically speaking) if you were put in a relationship with this person, you would still...well, die, to start one.
Some people date their close friends and go straight back to normal in the end. Others lose a big chunk of their lives out of it. Some just try and then get sick of it and let go. And others(like myself) don't even get that far. We just sit, and wait, and hope, that through the impossibility of it all, something will grow out of a smothered bud.