SOO tired of trans related complications

[jessica_m1978]

As a disclaimer, I don't have any issue with BEING trans.  I mean I'm not proud OR ashamed of it, much like I'm not proud or ashamed of being of predominately Irish heritage or female.  They're just things that are

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[iphisol]

Yeah. I totally hear that.

being tran

[iphisol]

well the fact that past employers are revealing it is against eoe act
all they need to know is your female your looking for a job and that
you have not committed any crimes
other then that they are going against the eoe act
I did not enough hiring and firing in my last job they need to watch what they are revealing.
Rose

Re: being tran

[jessica_m1978]

Actually, they were really cool about it. The problem is that my former employers typically don't know I transitioned and my current name, so I have to out myself to one or the other. To date, its had nothing to do with discrimination. It's more about me getting absolutely 0 say in outing myself as part of the employment process.

[renireligion]

um...too much eye makeup? what is this "too much eye makeup" of which you speak? you have to see me on a day when i actually get up on time and in a good mood and i look pretty for a change (and don't you dare start on natural beauty and blah blah blah. i just took my makeup off at my desk and thankfully had my philosophy cream in my bag. that, and i'm still the hottest girl here. holla.)

just to clarify - you do not look like a "shitty" anything. period. not even in a swimming costume and sweats, much less so in teeny-tiny skirt and big boots and wings too!

p.s. - don't retire your costume. i still have a birthday and i have a definite flair for the dramatic...

[jessica_m1978]

haha... the black angel wings are in the back window of my car to strike fear in the people i cut off and discourage ideas of retribution. so yeah... costume, TOTALLY not getting retired... i mean it was fucking awesome... it's just the sort of thing that has limited usage without being arrested for prostitution.

[strayfarce]

Well, if the employers are worth their salt it shouldn't be an issue. And maybe the fact that you work for a school during the day will reflect positively.

*hugs*