Your first problem is that you are trying to make everyone else happy, and you shouldn't be... you need to find the person you want to be and work to that. Don't worry if other people like it or don't like it... and maybe being a nice considerate person isn't who you need to be anyway... I can't stress enough that the more you try to make things happen, the more you will be disappointed. In life, we are given choices, and our lives evolve from those choices we make, if you have made a choice then you need to sit back and see where it takes you without trying to rush everything into action. Everything happens for a reason. There is one perfect person out there for everyone, and you may have to go through a lot to find them, but that makes the rewards all that much better. You are young and becoming frustrated with what you think everyone else has that you wish you did, but this is not true. Trust me. All of your friends that seem to have "love" really probably don't... no one really knows what love is specifically or if they have found it truly... and honestly, all of your friends that have significant others or a lot of people that they are "with" really have no idea what they want, and won't be happy. One thing that girls really look forward to, is finding someone that they are happy with and that lo and behold haven't made a ton of foolish mistakes with ten other girls before them. You will benefit greatly if you save yourself from mistakes and provide that one special person, when you find her, with a clean soul.
Reply
Reply
Leave a comment