Aug 24, 2009 18:21
We've been talking a little more about the wedding lately, more in the abstract way than putting down any details. We're waiting for job news still. We have some kinda sorta good job news. Tony's HR got aproval to hire him on full time, but not until October and his job will have to be posted and he'll have to interview for it and we don't know how much he'll make. But it's kinda sorta good news that we may not have to sell the house. Yay.
For the wedding we've been talking about how we don't want to make this wedding a cookie cutter wedding. I think that Tony has this idea that I want a regular wedding and I'm doing everything I can to dispell that foolish notion. For example, I've told him he can wear whatever he wants. He doesn't seem to believe me, but it's true. As long as he doesn't mind looking at pictures of us for the rest of our lives in whatever he choses, I'm not forcing him to wear something he's not comfortable in. Though I still think he would look very sexy in a kilt.
One decision we did make is that our attendents are going to have ranks and titles, rather than just being bridesmaids or groomsmen or whatever. We haven't decided on titles yet but I think this is a great idea because we have a lot of people that I would like involved somehow in the wedding but don't want to have a ton of bridesmaids, groomsmaids, bridesmen and groomsmen running around. I want to give people jobs and responsibilities and titles and ranks :) The titles and ranks was Tony's idea. I think he was a little shocked I agreed to it. I think he still believes I want a normal wedding. Just because I have a somewhat normal wedding dress does not mean I want a normal wedding.
Still no Elementary jobs posted. So sad.
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