Back in the game, but still striking out
I had mentioned that my best friend got me to join e-Harmony about a month ago. So I had two guys interested in me, one of which my friend say I scared away with how I answered his questions. Said I was to in depth, and that less is more. I really had no idea how to respond to questions, I was only going on how the first guy answered my questions, which were very in depth. But you live, you learn.
So anyway, I went out on a few dates with this guy Nick. We had dinner last week which went okay. I mean, we were practically 2 strangers meeting for the first time. It was awkward at times and truth be told, I expected that. So we agreed to go bowling tonight - and I don't think I'm interesting in pursuing him any further. Is it bad of me that watching him bowl I thought of him as a wimpy man? I had to hold myself back to avoid killing him in all 3 games. As it was, I threw 2 out of the 3. He's very nice, has a secure job and is a gentleman but he just doesn't get my juices flowing, know what I mean? I've really come the the conclusion that I need someone with a very big personality and someone who is going to competitive with me, for lack of a better word.
*SIGH* The only good thing that did come out of this is that I have gotten some confidence in regards to dating. I know I can do it and that I do have something to offer someone. I just wish it was a little easier.
So anyway, I went out on a few dates with this guy Nick. We had dinner last week which went okay. I mean, we were practically 2 strangers meeting for the first time. It was awkward at times and truth be told, I expected that. So we agreed to go bowling tonight - and I don't think I'm interesting in pursuing him any further. Is it bad of me that watching him bowl I thought of him as a wimpy man? I had to hold myself back to avoid killing him in all 3 games. As it was, I threw 2 out of the 3. He's very nice, has a secure job and is a gentleman but he just doesn't get my juices flowing, know what I mean? I've really come the the conclusion that I need someone with a very big personality and someone who is going to competitive with me, for lack of a better word.
*SIGH* The only good thing that did come out of this is that I have gotten some confidence in regards to dating. I know I can do it and that I do have something to offer someone. I just wish it was a little easier.