This will put a something among the chickens... how does that go?

[janie_fairy]

- I have been open and honest about my mental state. Everyone knows why I am messed up and have irrational behaviour

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[anonymous]

And I'm proud of you for improving your personal mental state. As you say, that's your first priority and your true friends should understand that.

*hugs*

Tom-

[ockyflam]

Hey Janelle,

I can understand your confusion. I've been pretty messed up the last couple of weeks for personal reasons, so I've been really withdrawn in the meantime. If you've perceived it as something against you, I'm really sorry.

Hopefully I'll see you tonight.

[frankiefan13]

Can I mention something that sounds bitchy but helped me a lot

[smangesable]

This is good advice. As ockyflam just said: He's been somewhat withdrawn recently. So, you might be thinking people are upset with you when in reality they're just busy dealing with their own head.

I guess all I'd add to that is that if you lose touch with people for whatever reason just start fresh when you run into each other. If you like them, make that obvious. Then see what happens. :)

[smangesable]

Oh, and if you post stuff on LJ that you later regret or aren't sure of.. just change the security to a handful of friends you know you can say anything to. Still just as cathartic, but less likely to be regretted. :)