Better
I'm much calmer today. Still pissed, but calmer.
Still plan on talking to L when she gets back. Still plan on having witnesses when Crazy corners me and I tell her that the extent of our relationship will be when I'm forced to work with her. Other than that, I will try to be the bigger person. I realized that the rumors will most likely only circulate among support staff, not the movers and shakers, and that the people I talk to in support will already know the truth.
I did talk to another admin on my floor, M, who's been here for 20-some years. She hadn't heard anything, and promised to tell me if she does. She also recommended that I tell L that QA was involved, because apparently this isn't the first time that QA has circulated vicious, untrue rumors. M said that upper management knows it's a problem with QA, which was news to me, so hopefully by the end of next week, things will be taken care of.
I hate being the narc, but in the same respect, I don't want my reputation to be unfairly trashed.
Expect another update on the confrontation, though the more I think about it, I'm betting she's paranoid that I know, since I've been purposefully avoiding her. She may never talk to me, because she knows I have ammo. We shall see.
Still plan on talking to L when she gets back. Still plan on having witnesses when Crazy corners me and I tell her that the extent of our relationship will be when I'm forced to work with her. Other than that, I will try to be the bigger person. I realized that the rumors will most likely only circulate among support staff, not the movers and shakers, and that the people I talk to in support will already know the truth.
I did talk to another admin on my floor, M, who's been here for 20-some years. She hadn't heard anything, and promised to tell me if she does. She also recommended that I tell L that QA was involved, because apparently this isn't the first time that QA has circulated vicious, untrue rumors. M said that upper management knows it's a problem with QA, which was news to me, so hopefully by the end of next week, things will be taken care of.
I hate being the narc, but in the same respect, I don't want my reputation to be unfairly trashed.
Expect another update on the confrontation, though the more I think about it, I'm betting she's paranoid that I know, since I've been purposefully avoiding her. She may never talk to me, because she knows I have ammo. We shall see.