I am not trying to start anything. but just because david said that he doesn't have respect for her anymore doensn't mean you can assume the he called her as slut. because he wouldn't call anyone that. not even me
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Re: Honestly...jagged_stichesApril 20 2005, 04:45:56 UTC
This was not saying he called her a slut. The only reason cassy said it the way she did is because she wanted to let david know how much he had effected her to say that. She went a little extreme when first expressing this to david. The only reason i got involved was to defend cassy, because she wouldnt defend herself. Had it been vise versa and I had said something about loosing respect for a person for doing something once that I had done on multiple occasions before that. me and david have already spoken and this was clearly from my point of view and was nothing more then a rant. Me and david have since talked and discovered where we both were in fault. I apoligized for screaming, but as i said before I will not turn down what I said. I mean know harm towards any friendship, but to hurt someone so much with out thinking how thosewords might be interperated. The sad thing about the english language is everything can be interperted how ever you want to. I had heated words but tha is only because I love and respect cassy. as we all do
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Dear, I'm sorry for what you think but me and david are going to have compleatly different views about what happened. I hugged cassy cause she was sad on monday. David asked her the problem. She said, "I heard some one who I thought was my friend called me a slut" David started yelling at her "I didn't call you a slut" but he also didn't clarify what had actually happened. Cassy only wanted to let him know how much it hurt her. Lena, i've talked to you on many different levels and I've hear dsome of the very cruel things people have said about you and I don't understand why, but does it not hurt when a person whos suppose to be your friend insults you because you did something they've done. All she wanted was an apology for being disrespected, she didn't start yelling at him, and then i couldn't take it. I don't know how your going to hear the story but thats what I say. I really didnt want to cause drama, i just wanted to let david know how much his words DO EFFECT people. just as mine have here with this post.
yes it does hurt. but the thing you have to remember is...friends can lose repsect over something like that. i don't see loosing respect as an insult. it just means that you did something that they don't agree with morally. and if that's the way it is, then so be it.
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