2 years and three days
It has been 2 years and 3 days since my last post. I guess I got so busy with life that I had no time to write about it. That isn't necessarily a bad thing though. There is also facebook for anything that was left out of here haha.
I initially came on here to vent about how my friendship is being taken for granted (yet again) by people who I considered family. It really is disappointing when you get let down by the ones that you care about. You put yourself out there for them to use and abuse you and you don't realize it until it is all over.
Well, you'll be glad to know that I'm not that kind of person to just sit back and take it. I'm ending my friendship with Heather and Bekah tomorrow. It's not something I'm happy about as I don't like losing friends, but they violated my trust, not to mention I was manipulated and my words were used in a negative manner.
I'll try to not to spend too much time with this, but Heather basically cheated on Bekah and failed to mention that to me. She made it seem like Bekah was the problem in the relationship. So she basically omitted important facts to make herself look good and then manipulated her words to make me think that her actions in whatever she did were justified. Sorry Heather, but that is not what my friendship is intended for.
After finding out that Heather cheated on Bekah (which was the MAJOR thing she omitted in her storytelling), I talked with Bekah and consoled her. I supported her when she said she was going to leave Heather at the end of their lease and that I think she is making the right decision for herself because Heather, most likely, will never change for the better. Then I find out yesterday that she used what I told her to lash out at Heather and maker her feel bad.
It's a convoluted and ugly circle of negativity with the two of them and, quite frankly, I'm not going to put up with it. My frendship, trust, advice, and energy spent caring about them and being there for the both of them have all been violated. It is time to say goodbye.
I'm going to try and make an attempt to blog more. I have more to tell but it's 2 AM and I just want to relax and fall asleep for the rest of the evening. To anyone who is still on here and listening, I hope life is treating you well!
-Brett
I initially came on here to vent about how my friendship is being taken for granted (yet again) by people who I considered family. It really is disappointing when you get let down by the ones that you care about. You put yourself out there for them to use and abuse you and you don't realize it until it is all over.
Well, you'll be glad to know that I'm not that kind of person to just sit back and take it. I'm ending my friendship with Heather and Bekah tomorrow. It's not something I'm happy about as I don't like losing friends, but they violated my trust, not to mention I was manipulated and my words were used in a negative manner.
I'll try to not to spend too much time with this, but Heather basically cheated on Bekah and failed to mention that to me. She made it seem like Bekah was the problem in the relationship. So she basically omitted important facts to make herself look good and then manipulated her words to make me think that her actions in whatever she did were justified. Sorry Heather, but that is not what my friendship is intended for.
After finding out that Heather cheated on Bekah (which was the MAJOR thing she omitted in her storytelling), I talked with Bekah and consoled her. I supported her when she said she was going to leave Heather at the end of their lease and that I think she is making the right decision for herself because Heather, most likely, will never change for the better. Then I find out yesterday that she used what I told her to lash out at Heather and maker her feel bad.
It's a convoluted and ugly circle of negativity with the two of them and, quite frankly, I'm not going to put up with it. My frendship, trust, advice, and energy spent caring about them and being there for the both of them have all been violated. It is time to say goodbye.
I'm going to try and make an attempt to blog more. I have more to tell but it's 2 AM and I just want to relax and fall asleep for the rest of the evening. To anyone who is still on here and listening, I hope life is treating you well!
-Brett