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[inslntmarz]

I once had a conversation with my uncle (my uncle and i are very open with one another because we're a lot alike and we connect like we're best friends) that if you were in a relationship and you really liked the person, but then had sex with them and it was really bad sex, then the relationship wouldn't last. at the time i was a virgin and

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[belie]

How important is sex in a relationship?
i do personaly believe sex is important..
probably one of the most important things in a serious relationship..
a relationship is based on physical attraction..
in all seriousness.. how can one person grow to like a person for what they are like inside without noticing them on the outside first..??
and the ultimate in physical attraction is expressing it.. equaling sex!
so yes.. it is important.

If the sex is bad, is it possible to sustain a relationship and still be happy together?
yes and no...
what about thoes people who believe in sex after marriage? they have sustained a good relationship for a long time without it. so maybe they could live with eachother and be happy if the sex is bad.. as they alreayd love each other so much.
good sex always would be a blessing..
people have their off days.. where one is more into it that the other.. so maybe for the both of them its different feelings.
good sex all the time is unlikely to happen..
but if its bad sex all the time.. i dont know..
i havent been faced with that situation..

[jean_e]

those people that wait are rediculas...

what if u wait 6 years and you find she is really really bad... id be so disapointed. like ive allways said. "try before you buy"

[belie]

*shrugs*

waiting is stupid... no point really..
if you 'love' someone then you will express that love physically..

or for the others like us..

just give it a go coz we r fucken horny :P~

[_reticence]

There is a point to waiting. I've watched all of my friends fuck this guy and that guy, never having a relationship that lasted longer than two weeks after they had sex. You fuck a guy just because and then what does he have left to work for? He already got everything you have to give and then he's gone. Don't tell me that that isn't true, because it is. I've seen it happen dozens of times. That's not to say that this is ALWAYS the case, though, because I had sex with my fiance two weeks after I met him and after a year, we're still together and getting married. I was just extremely lucky that he wasn't like most guys.

[inslntmarz]

hahaha i love that saying.

[inslntmarz]

Thankyou for your input :o)