The National Organisation for Marriage is providing everyone a great service, and not just for the lulz. As pointed out on
2m4m, they will also send emails on your behalf to State governments.
In Connecticut,
SB899 looks likely to be voted on soon, and New York Governor David Patterson apparently wants to put the issue to a vote. NOM have provided handy little forms that you can fill in and send to the Senators and Representatives of
Connecticut and
New York to let them know how you feel on the issue.
Just be sure to add your own text and subject line :)