Feeling a little down.... ok, a lot.

[indigo_eris]

In the last couple of years I've been learning a lot about my expectations of people. Mostly that I have too many, and that they are set too high. They're the kind of thing I took for granted, not really putting conscious thought to them. They were just a part of the way I thought things were. I've been so wrong about so many things. I've been so

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[iamsquid]

I have no clue what to do now. Do I go on like I never saw it? Pretend I don't know she despises me? Play like everything is normal the way she has these last few years? Do I confront her? Is it even worth it?

I would determine whether or not yoo have any desire to continue being friendly with her. If not, then fuck her, and don't mention it to her - or say much of anything to her for that matter.

If, however, yoo would like to attempt to be friendly with her again then the worst thing yoo can do is not say anything because one person having a problem with the other and not mentioning it seems to be the problem to begin with.

[evilmiss_lauren]

I'm here for you. I certainly hold you in very high respect - you are one of the few females in my life that I really look up to. I'm so sorry for your pain and that you have been betrayed.

I don't know what you should do, but I know that sometimes I feel better when I talk to someone I have an issue with and tell them how I feel.

Things like loyalty, unconditional love, devotion, honesty, truth, commitment, and reliance.. Please don't loose sight and give up on these ideals. I know that they are what makes life worth living.

[deadcherries]

You said this letter is two years old. It doesn't mean that this is the current state of things or that it's been that way the entire time. There could have been a night of drinking or whatever that harbored a bad feeling into them where they childishly went off with everything that would harbor, into a letter.

or it could be the state of things the entire time and the balls were never there to confront it. It definately hurts finding something like that and not know the entire time that you could provoke, unknowingly, someone into feeling that way.

I wouldn't go on like I haven't seen it. I wouldn't pretend that she doesn't despise you, because it may turn out that she doesn't and was just having a really bad time when she wrote it. I wouldn't pretend everything is normal but I wouldn't blow up when confronting.

y'all need a sit down and show her the letter.
But of course, baby you're going to whatever you ultimately feel you need to do and we'll be around to support you.

[kitten_goddess]

I'm sorry you're going through such a hard time. *hugs*

You are a beautiful person and we miss you a lot.

It sounds like it's her problem, not yours. Anyone who has that hard of a time communicating her needs and feelings has serious issues.

[evilcapitalist]

Hmmm. As someone who has been frustrated by violated expectations for most of my life & always had a smaller circle of friends/is only close to a few people, I'm going to share with you what I have learned from a few books I've been reading lately that have helped me out