How about a real post this time, eh?

[imotos_2000]

Where to begin...

The House:

It’s shaping up finally.  Just a fresh coat of paint made a difference, but now we've gotten new carpet, new windows, new doors, and trim.  Also, we've added a very nice entertainment center and matching book shelf, 2 beautiful computer desks, some kitchen cabinets (yes we were missing major storage...can ya tell),

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My opinion

[eadon]

and this is just my opinion is that you should do school first, there's plenty of time for baby later, and they need so much time that school would be difficult until it's in school too. Now I don't know too much about the conception issue, but there are all sorts of fertility options and there's always adoption.

Anyway, just my $.02, feel free to ignore :-)

Re: My opinion

[imotos_2000]

on adoption:
yes, that is our last resort, but part of the trouble is that I am one of those strange people that actually want to do the pregnancy thing, and even the labor thing. I don't know, I know there are fertility options, but look into how much most of them cost and I don't really see them as a decent option. I am not too worried about it yet....well I am, but it's stupid to worry about it now. I'll worry when I know I'm having a problem.

And as for the school thing you mention...that was sort of the plan...stay home for a few years till baby goes to preschool (thats like 2 or 3....or before, some schools have nursuries) and I know not everyone agrees with that kind of situation, but Tony and I are ok with it and thats sort of what I think it important. (the baby in day care/preschool thing)

I think we'll just have to wait and see how it goes...

Re: My opinion

[eadon]

Most women want to do the whole pregnancy/labor thing, that's why there are so many fertility options and unwanted babies with no homes. And I think pre-school is a good thing for kids, but day cares suck, trust me, I've been in more day cares than I care to count and I hated my parents for doing that to me.

Re: My opinion

[imotos_2000]

well...part of it is finding the RIGHT day care...but ideally I would like to find a preschool with a nursery...then its not EXACTLY day care...but we'll see. I've spoken to Tony about this and he supports whatever I decide, and I'm leaning more and more toward waiting. A lot of it depends on how my conversation goes with the school councelor when I get the chance to get over there and chat with her.

Re: My opinion

[eadon]

Let me know how it goes.