advice please??
so i spose this is probably mainly going to be about dave.
i really really don't know what to do about him. really would like some advice?
i've been "seeing" him for about a month and a half. we get on really well when we're together and it started off great. he'd text me all day and we saw eachother like every other day. now, he sometimes doesn't text me till like 9pm, i see him like every 5 days and he no longer talks about us the way he used to. at the beginning he used to talk about me to his friends loads - now he doesn't. (they told me) and he used to talk to me about liking me but he wasn't ready for a new relationship because of his recent break up with 4 year ex psyco girlfriend. he's being weird and i dont know what to do.
the thing that really gets to me is like a month ago he would say "god, i don't know what to do because i really really like you" and now he just doesn't say anything. he still acts sweet to me but its different.
his ex is a nutcase aswell and is butting in. she texted him the other morning (while i was there, he showed me the text) saying: 'i don't know what to do. i cant stop thinking and crying about you :(' and although he's been ignoring her and saying he doesn't want to get back with her, it's obviously affecting him.
what do i do? please? i don't know whether to just back right off and see if he still wants me (hard to get or whatever) or just keep on as it's going and hope he realises i don't deserve this.
after all the shit i've been through i really deserve better than this. fucking hell.
i really really don't know what to do about him. really would like some advice?
i've been "seeing" him for about a month and a half. we get on really well when we're together and it started off great. he'd text me all day and we saw eachother like every other day. now, he sometimes doesn't text me till like 9pm, i see him like every 5 days and he no longer talks about us the way he used to. at the beginning he used to talk about me to his friends loads - now he doesn't. (they told me) and he used to talk to me about liking me but he wasn't ready for a new relationship because of his recent break up with 4 year ex psyco girlfriend. he's being weird and i dont know what to do.
the thing that really gets to me is like a month ago he would say "god, i don't know what to do because i really really like you" and now he just doesn't say anything. he still acts sweet to me but its different.
his ex is a nutcase aswell and is butting in. she texted him the other morning (while i was there, he showed me the text) saying: 'i don't know what to do. i cant stop thinking and crying about you :(' and although he's been ignoring her and saying he doesn't want to get back with her, it's obviously affecting him.
what do i do? please? i don't know whether to just back right off and see if he still wants me (hard to get or whatever) or just keep on as it's going and hope he realises i don't deserve this.
after all the shit i've been through i really deserve better than this. fucking hell.