I like the innocent type, deer in the headlights

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I'm just going to say it right now, some people take things way to seriously. There's a time and a place to be 'business', but you don't have to do it ALL THE TIME. Some thing are just fun, and that's all they are. Then people read too much into them and they just become dramatic. Then what? I also think sometimes people need to stay out of other people's lives. No one needs you to comment on their decisions. If they want your opinion, they will ask for it. Don't make judgments based on fractured information.
Maybe it's just hang-over philosophy.