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"When you smoke the herb it reveals you to yourself"--Bob Marley
Here's what has been bothering me for a few days.
It's tuesday night and I am with a lady friend of mine and things start escalate, but before the concept of the P to the V, She looks at me and asked "Are you clean?". Thoughts raced through my mind. "If I say 'yes' I am getting some for sure" but I also was thinking "If I say 'No' will she still go all the way?". I respond with "yes" and without a hesitation my pants were off and the condom was on. After a few minutes with the condom on she said "I am on the pill, so you can take that off. If you want".
What Kind of a question is that? "are you clean?" That's a smart question to ask someone before they indulge is some meaningless sex but there are few men in the world that would answer honestly. (I can assure you that I am clean for sure. last thing I want is my penis falling off). anyways you may still be on "The Pill" but it doesn't protect you from the STD's.
What's to learn from this experience? I learned three things: 1) Always keep the condom on even if it fells 579548754.258 times better and she says she's on the pill keep it on. The current feeling is not even compared to the feeling of regret that you kept the plastic on. 2) hooking up with good friends is always a bad idea. 3) and the third is, Sake Bombers eff me up.
I am 90% sure I pulled out in time. damn...
Here's what has been bothering me for a few days.
It's tuesday night and I am with a lady friend of mine and things start escalate, but before the concept of the P to the V, She looks at me and asked "Are you clean?". Thoughts raced through my mind. "If I say 'yes' I am getting some for sure" but I also was thinking "If I say 'No' will she still go all the way?". I respond with "yes" and without a hesitation my pants were off and the condom was on. After a few minutes with the condom on she said "I am on the pill, so you can take that off. If you want".
What Kind of a question is that? "are you clean?" That's a smart question to ask someone before they indulge is some meaningless sex but there are few men in the world that would answer honestly. (I can assure you that I am clean for sure. last thing I want is my penis falling off). anyways you may still be on "The Pill" but it doesn't protect you from the STD's.
What's to learn from this experience? I learned three things: 1) Always keep the condom on even if it fells 579548754.258 times better and she says she's on the pill keep it on. The current feeling is not even compared to the feeling of regret that you kept the plastic on. 2) hooking up with good friends is always a bad idea. 3) and the third is, Sake Bombers eff me up.
I am 90% sure I pulled out in time. damn...