Virginity
I started thinking about a certain someone and it has made me think...
When someone calls you a "Virgin" in this day and age it's like saying that you have an STD or something even worse. I mean no one can tell you that you can't have sex, and no one can tell you to wait, everyone gets that "feeling" of knowing that Im doing the right thing, at the right time and place.
I mean a lot of us get caught up in that feeling that someone loves me enough to show me the MAXIMUM amount of affection, i guess what makes me mad, is that a lot of "couples" think by having sex it will improve there relationship, when in all reality, sex is the number one reason couples let things get bad before calling it quits, becuase of that attachment.
I think that girls who wait can think more clear and make better decisions. I mean personally, my mind is always clouded becuase i dont know which way to turn becuase i have had that sexual contact, and who and what do i want from it? What i wouldnt give to meet someone and not know what it is like... Just knowing that he is cute, and if we start dating, looking forward to him "maybe" being that one guy in a million that i share my most percious gift of all too...
I dont think alot of guys/girls see it as a "gift". I think it is more somewhat of a burden, you know, if i dont then people think im scared, and if i do, then Im have an "image" to obtain. I have to laugh because i was oblivious to my feelings about sex and Im 20 years old.
Now i have an addiction, like it was some kind of Drug, and here i am wishing for it to be mine again! I wish i knew what made people just jump into making that life changing decision, and what and why it is so impossible to wait unitl your married, and why it is pressured to much among teens!