I think ill give some dating advice
You know the one neat thing I see going out so much is how common the patterns some girls have. I'm not talking about how every time they leave a awkward situation they say "I'm going to the bathroom" or how they will hold hands in the club kind of forming a kindergarten field trip line. Yes thats funny but its not what I'm talking about.
What I mean by pattern is the way girls act socially can just be looked at as a pattern real players know how to manipulate this which is why some guys get laid all the freaking time or at least get constant make outs.
This may sound misogynistic (i apologize for this ahead of time)
One thing I noticed is that allot of hot girls tend to hang out with cute girls. Now hot girls are hot, and cute girls are not as hot as the hot girl but are just cute. Frankly I'm happy to say that unlike other guys if I meet a hot girl/cute girl combo and I find the cute girl more interesting I will go after the cute girl. But here lies the rub. Cute girls are 90% of the time insanely insecure and they show it in the most annoying way....they are pains in the asses. Its like they spend all their time whinning that they dont get the attention from guys because they all go after the hot girls so the minute a guy shows interest either of these two thoughts pop into their heads
A) This guy is only faking interest in me to get into my friends pants, he doesn't really like me. I'm going to be a pain in his ass
Now I have to say there is some truth in this, some guys will try to make friends with the friend to get into the pants of the hot girl. But they wont try to hit on the friend to get with the hot girl that is what allot of guys call bad strategy. Because if they are all over the friend and then try to switch to the hottie they will be the biggest looser asshole in the club and that shit will get around quick! So if a guy is hitting on you with your hot friend right next to you there is a 80% chance he is into you!
B) Oh this guy is into me, but I'm not hot, I should act like the hot girl and hot girls act like total bitches, guys go for that, if I'm too easy he will loose interest and move on to something more challenging.
Oy! Where to begin? I going to all myth busters on you guys. There are two myths that fuck with all guys every day of their lives.
1) Hot women are bitches
2) Guys like bitches
Now lets start with the first one. Let me tell you that 70% of all hot women ARE NOT BITCHES! I don't care who you grew up with, if you worked in the fashion industry, if you know some d list celebrity. 70% of all hot women are actually pretty nice. Will they have sex with regular joe schmoes like you or me? probably not. But they wont be a complete dick to you and me. Hot women actually don't have the perfect life that allot of us think they do. They are completely valued on their looks. Doesn't matter if they are lawyers or doctors if your hot your thrown on the hot and stupid pile. So people will try to baby you all the time, they wont listen to you, your a trophy. It actually kind of sucks. I know, I know we all have problems but look at it this way at least people give a shit about your opinion when was the last time you think anyone actually gave a shit about what Pamela Anderson thought. I will agree some celebs like Tyra should just not speak.
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Moving on two the other social myth. Guys like bitches. Why cant you guys see how ridiculous this sounds is beyond me?! Seriously! Maybe its because you see that your friends or maybe even you tend to fall for assholes. Or you see that great guy who your secretly in love with wound up marrying a total harpie. So okay lets get into why people wind up with assholes and bitches.
This is how it starts. This person has to fit a certain type of person to fall for a bitch or asshole. Basically it comes down to being too committed. You see its really rare for a guy to fall for a girl who is a complete bitch from the start. Lets say our boy is at a club and sees a cute girl, he goes up to her they hit it off and wind up making out or hell even hooking up. They have a magical night were they talk till the sun comes up about everything and everyone. Its magical.
Then after the honeymoon phase of the relationship is over. She turns into psycho bitch from hell. Connecting with someone is a very powerful thing this is why if a guy have a magical night and the next week she curses him out at a starbucks for bringing her a capucino instead of a non fat late guys tend to overlook such a glaring red flag that this is not a relationship you want to be involved in.
We all have had that thought of "But I know that person I fell for is inside there, I see here once a week, if only i could get get her to come out all the time." "Or I have committed so much time to this horrible person, maybe I can turn it around" These rationalities are just excuses we all make because we are used to the pain we have with this person but we are afraid of the pain of the unknown. What if i break up with this person and I wind up alone forever. Its those kinds of needy thoughts that screw up lives.
People who fall for assholes and bitches from the initial meeting are so rare. Its like catching a glimpse of a unicorn. These people are just insecure and just need that control in their lives. So they see being an asshole or bitch as a sing of strength and they latch on to it for dear life.
Now don't swing the completely the other way, don't go up to a guy and scream, your so hot, I love you, I want to marry you and have your children. Don't tell them how you know you'll both have a magical relationship and want to take them the next day to meet your parents. Don't be an idiot! Just play it cool, flirt with him, if you want even make out with the dude (if he plays his cards right), give him your number, hug him, BUT DON'T SLEEP WITH HIM THAT NIGHT. Seriously sex is not some lasso you can through around guys and expect them to call you the next day and have them ask you to be their girlfriends later that week.
Listen if your going to have sex with some guy you met at a club then hey good for you. But don't have sex expecting it to lead anywhere. If you want to have hot steamy sex with some stud you just met then enjoy it and leave it at that. He might call and he might not, but at least you did it for the right reasons and you enjoyed yourself that night.
Now go out, have fun, and be nice to that guy who talks to you, you never know where it might lead.
What I mean by pattern is the way girls act socially can just be looked at as a pattern real players know how to manipulate this which is why some guys get laid all the freaking time or at least get constant make outs.
This may sound misogynistic (i apologize for this ahead of time)
One thing I noticed is that allot of hot girls tend to hang out with cute girls. Now hot girls are hot, and cute girls are not as hot as the hot girl but are just cute. Frankly I'm happy to say that unlike other guys if I meet a hot girl/cute girl combo and I find the cute girl more interesting I will go after the cute girl. But here lies the rub. Cute girls are 90% of the time insanely insecure and they show it in the most annoying way....they are pains in the asses. Its like they spend all their time whinning that they dont get the attention from guys because they all go after the hot girls so the minute a guy shows interest either of these two thoughts pop into their heads
A) This guy is only faking interest in me to get into my friends pants, he doesn't really like me. I'm going to be a pain in his ass
Now I have to say there is some truth in this, some guys will try to make friends with the friend to get into the pants of the hot girl. But they wont try to hit on the friend to get with the hot girl that is what allot of guys call bad strategy. Because if they are all over the friend and then try to switch to the hottie they will be the biggest looser asshole in the club and that shit will get around quick! So if a guy is hitting on you with your hot friend right next to you there is a 80% chance he is into you!
B) Oh this guy is into me, but I'm not hot, I should act like the hot girl and hot girls act like total bitches, guys go for that, if I'm too easy he will loose interest and move on to something more challenging.
Oy! Where to begin? I going to all myth busters on you guys. There are two myths that fuck with all guys every day of their lives.
1) Hot women are bitches
2) Guys like bitches
Now lets start with the first one. Let me tell you that 70% of all hot women ARE NOT BITCHES! I don't care who you grew up with, if you worked in the fashion industry, if you know some d list celebrity. 70% of all hot women are actually pretty nice. Will they have sex with regular joe schmoes like you or me? probably not. But they wont be a complete dick to you and me. Hot women actually don't have the perfect life that allot of us think they do. They are completely valued on their looks. Doesn't matter if they are lawyers or doctors if your hot your thrown on the hot and stupid pile. So people will try to baby you all the time, they wont listen to you, your a trophy. It actually kind of sucks. I know, I know we all have problems but look at it this way at least people give a shit about your opinion when was the last time you think anyone actually gave a shit about what Pamela Anderson thought. I will agree some celebs like Tyra should just not speak.
Attractive Girls Union Refuses To Enter Into Talks With Mike Greenman
Moving on two the other social myth. Guys like bitches. Why cant you guys see how ridiculous this sounds is beyond me?! Seriously! Maybe its because you see that your friends or maybe even you tend to fall for assholes. Or you see that great guy who your secretly in love with wound up marrying a total harpie. So okay lets get into why people wind up with assholes and bitches.
This is how it starts. This person has to fit a certain type of person to fall for a bitch or asshole. Basically it comes down to being too committed. You see its really rare for a guy to fall for a girl who is a complete bitch from the start. Lets say our boy is at a club and sees a cute girl, he goes up to her they hit it off and wind up making out or hell even hooking up. They have a magical night were they talk till the sun comes up about everything and everyone. Its magical.
Then after the honeymoon phase of the relationship is over. She turns into psycho bitch from hell. Connecting with someone is a very powerful thing this is why if a guy have a magical night and the next week she curses him out at a starbucks for bringing her a capucino instead of a non fat late guys tend to overlook such a glaring red flag that this is not a relationship you want to be involved in.
We all have had that thought of "But I know that person I fell for is inside there, I see here once a week, if only i could get get her to come out all the time." "Or I have committed so much time to this horrible person, maybe I can turn it around" These rationalities are just excuses we all make because we are used to the pain we have with this person but we are afraid of the pain of the unknown. What if i break up with this person and I wind up alone forever. Its those kinds of needy thoughts that screw up lives.
People who fall for assholes and bitches from the initial meeting are so rare. Its like catching a glimpse of a unicorn. These people are just insecure and just need that control in their lives. So they see being an asshole or bitch as a sing of strength and they latch on to it for dear life.
Now don't swing the completely the other way, don't go up to a guy and scream, your so hot, I love you, I want to marry you and have your children. Don't tell them how you know you'll both have a magical relationship and want to take them the next day to meet your parents. Don't be an idiot! Just play it cool, flirt with him, if you want even make out with the dude (if he plays his cards right), give him your number, hug him, BUT DON'T SLEEP WITH HIM THAT NIGHT. Seriously sex is not some lasso you can through around guys and expect them to call you the next day and have them ask you to be their girlfriends later that week.
Listen if your going to have sex with some guy you met at a club then hey good for you. But don't have sex expecting it to lead anywhere. If you want to have hot steamy sex with some stud you just met then enjoy it and leave it at that. He might call and he might not, but at least you did it for the right reasons and you enjoyed yourself that night.
Now go out, have fun, and be nice to that guy who talks to you, you never know where it might lead.