Fandom VS Marriage: Loving Hyde to Death

[hydemyself]

It's been bothering me for a while

Comments

[sleepervampire]

kbtulan, td dkantor aq dgrin rip-an konser2 l'arc jadul kea heavenly mpe gcc dll.. jdi inget ms2 wktu msi sabishi fangirl dulu hahaha wktu blom knal kalian..gk nyadar dah selama ini, tp prasaan sm skali gk rubah...tp bdanya dulu aq ms bgitu polos krn blm tau yg namanya fanservice xD

scara ran dah pnya calon nya, klo aq si blom.. jdi gk trlalu mikirin si hehe, *garuk2* palagi msi h2c sama 2011 nnti, XD

gak ada yg tau apa yg terjadi esok si ran, dan segala sesuatu bs berubah..jdi yaa..just treasure this precious moment ne..

aq si percaya ran pasti bs handle deh. let it flow aj.. tp klo saat itu tiba jgn lupain kita ya! esp klalawr peliharaan hyde ini, mwahaha~ *nyengir2 geje*

ganba!!ganba!! /^^/ yu ah, taraweh dulu~ *ngacir*

[hydemyself]

Aku mikirinnya sampe susah makan susah tidur lho *halah, berlebihan*

Beberapa hari terakhir aku coba mengalihkan perhatianku dengan dengerin lagu-lagu non-L'Arc. Tapi tetep aja, sensasi yang aku rasakan beda, nggak sama dengan kalo aku dengerin lagu-lagu mereka.

Lagian, fangirling yang aku maksud di sini nggak cuma dengan L'Arc, tapi fangirling yang lain juga. Yaaah, macem ama Mao, Yuma, Tomoki, dll. Nanti kalo udah married, apa iya aku masih bisa nonton dorama sepuasnya ato beli-beli DVD ato CD sesuka hati. Emang pake duit sendiri, tapi apa iya entar nggak menimbulkan konflik ama suami. Sigh, kangaesugitanjanai no?

[sleepervampire]

maa... don't think too much ne~ selama ran bs ngehandle 2 sisi dirimu sbge fangirl n istri yg baik si gd masalah.. tnggal gmn calon mu bs nrima dunia seorang fangilrl, yg mnrtku si itu biasa, naluri dr soerang wnita who can't resist such thing called beautiful xD
kakak cowoku trmasuk org yg suka nnton dorama lo, dia ska ikut nmbrung klo aq lg nnton, n dia ngerti klo adik nya pnyuka be-el tp nyante2 aja..kdang sk nnya klo aq pnya dorama aneh apa lg..bahkan dia pun tau folder yaoi yg brtebaran di hardisku xD hhehe pgn si dpt cowo open minded n gk smbrng ngjudge kt ;3

[hydemyself]

Asyik juga punya kakak kaya kakak pampai ^___^
Aku nggak punya kakak. Banyak sepupu cowok tapi ketemuannya cuma pas acara keluarga. Lagian, mereka nggak tertarik ama Jejepangan karena pada jadi businessman sih.

Masalahnya sekarang topik fangirling itu yang jadi perdebatan. Cowok normal mana pun pasti merasa terganggu kalo liat ceweknya histeris liat cowok lain T____T

[killingsound]

You know, I wonder the same thing with myself! I wonder how long til this habit of crushing on celebrities that I have fades away, if ever. And I wonder if my future boyfriends will mind. I would like to think that any guy in your life would understand your fangirl habits and would accept them as a cute, non-threatening part of yourself. After all, it's not like you are gonna leave your husband for Hyde.

Fangirling is fun, isn't it? It's weird to imagine life without being a fan of something. Don't worry about it, girl, it's totally natural. As long as it doesn't affect your feelings for your guy, then it should be fine. :)

[hydemyself]

It'll be great if my husband can understand but most guys I dated always think that my habit is threatening. Well, I know my limit and I won't leave my family just for Hyde but still, guys tend to think that I'll choose my fandom instead of them.

Fangirling is hell fun, of course ^___^
I'm glad someone feels the same. I think I'll be fangirl forever~

[pawdough]

Me too! I sometimes wonder the same thing.... But then fangirling is a hobby that your future husband should understand, right? I agree with Baoying. I like how my sister's friend put it. Her boyfriend was asking why her profile picture in friendster is Matsujun's; she replied something like, in Real Life, he's her boyfriend already and she spends most of her time with him, so he can't possibly expect she'll fangirl about him also. That's just boring. Hahaha.

[hydemyself]

Nice answer ^___^b
It'll be boring to put the same picture of someone we can see everyday. But not every boy can buy that reason.

I can still do fangirling without being noticed but the biggest problem is whether my husband will let me buy stuffs that I like. Such as CD, DVD, etc. It's my own money but once we're married, of course I can't just spend it as I please, right?

[pawdough]

Yeah, you're right. Not every man would buy that. What I like about that boyfriend is that he's cool with it. So, in my case, I also wouldn't want to be with a man who wouldn't be cool with my fangirl hobby, hehe. And, I guess someday when we become wives our priorities would change too. I may still be a fangirl, but then my fangirling may become tame. It may be the same with you, idk. But certainly, don't you ever marry a man who is too possessive and is insecure to be bothered by you being a fangirl, okay? ;)

[hydemyself]

I'll remember your advice then ^___~

I think I was born to be fangirl XDD
Hopefully I can choose which thing needs to be prioritized when the time comes. So I'll fangirl as long as I still have the freedom to do it.

[a_deux_vitesses]

I hadn't thought about this before, but you have a point... I really have no clue as to what will happen to me with this either. I think that most people might understand and let you keep being yourself, except if they are extremely jealous. I mean it's not like we're just going to leave our families for our fandoms... I don't know, it might be immature, but I don't want to think about this now. Once I'm there, I'll figure it out.

I hope that we can keep being fangirls no matter what~

[hydemyself]

It's okay. You still have long way to go because you're certainly younger than me ^____^b

As long as my parents don't mind, I don't care what other people say. Let's keep fangirling, okay?

[a_deux_vitesses]

I guess ^^'

Good idea! Of course~