Life
Our futures, what we have been working towards our entire lives. Our future, which becomes the rest of our lives is only moments, days, months away. Looking back on everything we have gone through to get here. Waking up at 6:30, doing hours of work, for some of us hours was only minutes before class. But we have worked our way to the point were in. We worked our asses off to get to Harvard, we worked our asses off to save up money to afford college, we took out loans, we moved out of our confort zones, we did all of this for our futures, some of us have big plans that require extra work, and a wanting that is larger than anything some of us could imagine. Trying to be successful in a band, trying to get a start in the industry we want to be a part of. We work at whatever our goals may be. Our goals our different from theirs, theirs is different from theirs, and so on. But we all want something. Success is defined differently for every person. For some, we hope to become a multi-millionare and own our own company, some is finding someone they are madly in love with and working together to support a family, and for some success is just making it on their own, being in a well known band, or a teacher, or going to another country and changing the lives of people less fortunate than you. These are our hopes and dreams. What do you do when you find someone who in a sense, completes who you are, a person you find a bond with, but your dreams, are two totally different things and knowing this you must know that you will both be going separate ways. How do you deal with the fact that someone that important to you, may not be a part of your life in the future, and all that will be left of your relationship are memories, and growth, and a change that they made in you. Its heart breaking, and scary, but its something you have to take, because what they are to you may not be what you are to them and because of that, its easier for them to leave you than it is for you to leave them, and they are the ones that are able to think more rationally while your fogged with a hope that just wont happen. It’s a matter of acceptance, and accepting is something I find hard to do. Just like many other people. This scenario, it isn’t just mine, its his, and hers, and theirs, its ours, and its life. Life brings challenges, moments that make oyu laugh, moments that make you cry, and moments that you remember for the rest of oyur life. It’s the people who impact you, that you will never forget, that you will forget, that have imprinted a mark on you that will always be there. Hating the ones you love, loving the ones you hate, hoping for the best on someone that doesn’t hope anything for you. Its compromising, making decisions for yourself that impact someone else. Its growing up, its reaching your full potential and knowing that who you are, is wonderful, and beautiful, and it’s the people who help you reach that, and its then that you let go. And move on with your life, and start a new chapter of your life andbeing able to do it on your own. That is life.