For all you mamas out there that are married or in long term relationships(that have lasted) how did you know that he or she was the right one for you? Was there a moment that you knew they were gonna be the one?
I first met Shawn(my almost husband- 7 days till our wedding) when i was 13 in middle school. he embarrassed me in the lunch cafeteria, but i still had the biggest crush on him.. (he now tells me the reason he embarrassed me back then was cause he had a crush on me and thats what boys do) anyways.. we ended up going to the same highschool and had the same bus stop- so we used to talk alot, alot. about EVERYTHING.. and it was obvious that we had feelings.. even back then. but he asked me on a date, and i was nervous so i didnt answer him. he thought i turned him down, so he didnt talk to me as much and we ended up not talking for about 4 years. (in which time i had a child with an asshole- and moved in with a weirdo)... well one day he just randomly messaged me via lj to thank me for a doors album i gave him back in highschool. from there we started talking ALL night long on aim, and occassionally on the phone. then i asked him to be my date to a wedding, since my at the time boyfriend didn't want to go..(we were not really into eeach other at all- the relationship was purely a convenience thing)... well, the moment shawn and i saw each other again after all those years it was like love at first sight. he did not stop looking at me the whole date.. and during the wedding he was watching me instead of the bride and groom. he was so observant and quiet, i thought he was bored- so i just talked and talked and talked. but he later told me that he was mesmorized. that i was beautiful and he knew the moment that he saw me that he was going to marry me. for me, yes- i knew right away (i left my boyfriend promptly after that wedding- and eventually moved 3 hours away to live with shawn), every time i saw him i just wanted to stare at his eyes. i just wanted to listen to him talk and be close to him. i hated not being with him.. and even now, i feel the same way. there is no doubt in my mind we are soulmates, and each moment is the greatest moment of my life.
thats just my story, dont know if it helps you answer any of your questions, im sure it is different for everyone.
thats just my story, dont know if it helps you answer any of your questions, im sure it is different for everyone.
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nothing scares me when im with him. i look foward to everything. i used to be terrified of the future, but now im excited.
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