A Note for the Guys..
Dear Fellas,
I really love you, but if you don't know me, please do not come up to me and start a conversation with a lewd comment like : "You look like you're looking for a good time, baby. I know I am. Why don't you buy me a scotch and let's see where we go?" The comment itself is bad enough but to say it to me with your wife right there and I'm minding my own business just walking the mall?? First, buy your own damned scotch and second, if you're that disrespectful why don't you go into American Girl and have a doll made? She'll last a lot longer against your abuse and not give you any "trouble". Third, by talking that kind of shit to me in that manner, you'll get NOWHERE with me.
Yeah all, this really happened to me tonight while I was out at the mall for an evening walk before dinner. An older couple (looked to be in their late 60's) walked by me, the wife was bickering to the husband about getting ice cream, and at the same time the man proceeded to look at me, touch my arm, and say the comment above! I looked him square in the face and said "why don't you buy some ice cream for your wife and the scotch for yourself? That's called 'compromise'." Then I just turned and walked the other way. Don't get me wrong, I've been hit on by men older as well as younger than me and I've had more than my fair share of lewd comments thrown at me, but guys, just don't use these as a pickup line, especially if you don't even know the woman's name! At the very least, save this kind of "talk" for when you're in the bedroom about to have sex with your woman because doing this to a woman you just see on the street without even introducing yourself or asking for her name will 99.9% of the time turn a woman off and away from you, unless perhaps she's a desperate prostitute looking for her next "client". And a desperate prostitute I am NOT, which is why I did and still do not take it at all kindly to these kinds of lewd comments. So Carry yourselves with class guys. and NEVER think that being respectable is overrated! Thanks for reading. Love, Me
I really love you, but if you don't know me, please do not come up to me and start a conversation with a lewd comment like : "You look like you're looking for a good time, baby. I know I am. Why don't you buy me a scotch and let's see where we go?" The comment itself is bad enough but to say it to me with your wife right there and I'm minding my own business just walking the mall?? First, buy your own damned scotch and second, if you're that disrespectful why don't you go into American Girl and have a doll made? She'll last a lot longer against your abuse and not give you any "trouble". Third, by talking that kind of shit to me in that manner, you'll get NOWHERE with me.
Yeah all, this really happened to me tonight while I was out at the mall for an evening walk before dinner. An older couple (looked to be in their late 60's) walked by me, the wife was bickering to the husband about getting ice cream, and at the same time the man proceeded to look at me, touch my arm, and say the comment above! I looked him square in the face and said "why don't you buy some ice cream for your wife and the scotch for yourself? That's called 'compromise'." Then I just turned and walked the other way. Don't get me wrong, I've been hit on by men older as well as younger than me and I've had more than my fair share of lewd comments thrown at me, but guys, just don't use these as a pickup line, especially if you don't even know the woman's name! At the very least, save this kind of "talk" for when you're in the bedroom about to have sex with your woman because doing this to a woman you just see on the street without even introducing yourself or asking for her name will 99.9% of the time turn a woman off and away from you, unless perhaps she's a desperate prostitute looking for her next "client". And a desperate prostitute I am NOT, which is why I did and still do not take it at all kindly to these kinds of lewd comments. So Carry yourselves with class guys. and NEVER think that being respectable is overrated! Thanks for reading. Love, Me