What is new
Ah, so much and yet, it still feels similar in some many ways. I really need to stop comparing M to my exes, though its funny how he parts of all my previous ones. its a tad frightening considering how well those went. I am a bit hopeful though, finding an equal to me, who i believe, scarily has so much in common with me, this will, if nothing else, see what aspects I can change myself, and encourage my partner to change. I am still undecided if the opposites are better matched or similar people are matched. I know that being different has its advantages. We do tend to both like to argue, though we tend to share many opinions that are similar on things. He is so sweet though, which is like pure shock to me, but nice.
It feels relatively normal , except that I live with my ex -gf who I really care about.
Why can't life be non-monogamous ??
Ah yes monogamy, the bittersweet goodness of having having two partners. It certainly has its obvious pros and definite abundance of cons as well. I like the fact that how different styles of partnership can be, and how different dynamics create completely new experiences, but within the same scenario.
I love two people so much though, and know that either way if monogamy is required that there is no good solution, I have accepted this fact.
It feels relatively normal , except that I live with my ex -gf who I really care about.
Why can't life be non-monogamous ??
Ah yes monogamy, the bittersweet goodness of having having two partners. It certainly has its obvious pros and definite abundance of cons as well. I like the fact that how different styles of partnership can be, and how different dynamics create completely new experiences, but within the same scenario.
I love two people so much though, and know that either way if monogamy is required that there is no good solution, I have accepted this fact.