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i don't know what everyone's deal is with my boyfriend and me. we're trying to have a good relationship and CHILDREN are getting between us with their petty bullshit. i realize my friends and family and everyone who cares about me is trying to protect me and no one wants to see me get hurt, but he has no intentions of hurting me whatsoever. he cares about me too and he tries to be the best person he can be for me. despite what everyone has heard about him he really is not a bad person. just because he's not who you want him to be or he doesn't fit the picture of who you think i would want to be with doesn't give you the right to think you're better than him. i know what he's done in the past but everyone seriously has to stop looking back at things he did and realize the person that he is now. he may not be mr. romantic but that's all shit we learn from movies and if you haven't noticed what happens in the movies isn't real life. he doesn't treat me like shit and he's not a horrible person that everyone makes him out to be. yes he crashed his car.. he hit a curb.. and left. he learned his lesson with that and it won't happen again. yes he has a temper but he can control it to a certain point. with most of my friends, or anyone in general for that matter, harping on him and giving him a hard time and threatening him or whatever, he goes off. and one day someone is going to do something to really set him off and he will literally go off and do something. he may only be 18 but he's been through more shit in his life than a lot of 25-30 yr olds have been through and he's mature and can handle himself. i'm repeating myself but i could really care less right now cause i'm trying to get the point across to not fuck with us, try to come between us or whatever. i don't want to lose any more of my friends and i don't want him hating anymore of my friends. so please do me a favor and just keep your comments to yourself.