So Far...So Much Better...
I have a two points to make in this post. My new found friendship with my ex Daniel, and all of the fun things that I did over the weekend. I'll go in chronological order to denote the value of each experience, since rebecoming friends with Daniel is actually the best news I've ever had invloving him.
( All the fun stuff under this link... )
( All the fun stuff under this link... )
Can you teach me to flirt? Seriously. I just want to know the basics. I mean, being a cute girly must certainly help you. But, there must be some way I can be a successful flirt. Or, God forbid, have sex more than once this decade.
Come on, e-mail me. Spread your knowledge to those who need it.
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Now as for flirting, I can't remember doing that lately... The last time I really wanted to flirt I was too absurdly bashful and ended up just trying my best to stay the hell away from the person...
As I remember it, I avoided you for some good time until I was drunk and ended up just jumping you out of frutratiuon....I'm just lucky that worked!
Anyway, what are you talking about? You had me and Misty in like the same month. Pish pish, stop being so drum.
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Much love and missin,
Fox
PS, when're we hitting that show?
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I don't have anything else lined up for this week so far, c'ept working with Shanta's car this weekend. Whenever you want to do something, lemme know.
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Anyway, I dont know when I'll be 100% available. I think friday's a sureshot. I work early on saturday though. Oh well, I dont mind bein a zombie once or twice :)
Call me sometime, we'll arrange stuff :)
four-seven-oh-seven-two-eight-two is my numberal. Feel free to ring me anytime to lemme know if you're busy or not or something. If not friday, I'm clear saturday latenight. I think I work like 9 to 3 that day.
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Yeah, you're so bashful. You never meet anyone. I swear, go to a party with you, and no one even notices you're there. Oh wait, that's all wrong. Going out with you, everyone wants to talk to you. And, baring occasional quietness, you are quite good at meeting people... and wooing them. In any case, I know you've told me before that I have to flirt more. Well, I agree, but I don't know how. There should be more flirting in the world; good flirting makes both people feel nice and sparks some social interest. In my dreams you lead me around a crowded house, forcing me to flirt with people until it becomes natural.
Oh, and I didn't forget about that month (or two). It was one of my best during college. But thanks for reminding me anyway - I felt mildly heroic for a second or two.
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Yeah, that's something Enigma actually helped teach me once. He talked about how he had an art teacher in school that would flirt with all of her students, telling them how good their work was and things like that, even if it wasn't. He said that he started to copy her and do that sort of thing too, just to get used to it, and he ended up becoming really popular.
In my dreams you lead me around a crowded house, forcing me to flirt with people until it becomes natural.And that just sounds reeeeally fun! I guess I have done that with people before...making excuses for them to flirt with people. It's a lot of fun ( ... )
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That's good info. A good start. I'll see if I can go get embarrassed and return to you with more questions. Here's hoping I make a fool of myself.
I really don't have much of a sense of humor about the whole thing yet. I don't know though, I am almost proud of my bond with the people I care for. I feel like I can't have too much of a sense of humor about relationships... because I'd lose one of the few things I might like about myself.
I think yours made sense. I'm not sure if mine did. *wink*
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It's true, you have a much more noble approach than many...of course, that leaves you with the other people out there with noble approaches...and a good majority of them are virgins who will one day get married, make a baby, and then realize what they missed in their youth and will throw away their happy ending to "find themselves"...at least, I've seen it done.
I'm of course not implying that you're that type at all. you're genuinely shy and thoughtful...a lot of people aren't though...They're just closed minded.
Anywho, yeah, go make a fool of yourself! It gets easier, and it makes the whole thing a lot better.
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I'm carving a fierce, evil-looking gargoyle with his head in his hands, too over-come by annui to kill the trespasser. Maybe that's who I need.
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There's no reason for you to have to change yourself and become more outgoing...but it will help you meet people and all. Maybe if you took up playing guitar, making your gargoyle, or something else interesting outside somewhere...you may attract someone else's attention.
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