The Thing about Me and You, Darling, is that We Just Don't Work, and never will
Hey Guuuuyyyys~ <3
So here's today's song of the day, it's really awesome: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Rvjfm5FYHM&feature=relmfu I really like it because I think Megan is just like stunningly pretty and cute, and her voice is just really cute. <3 :) :) and I like the music video too, so please give it a listen. It's pretty catchy. :D And just totally awesome XD
Today, one of my friends was going to confess to the guy she liked, but she ended up not doing it today because she thought she'd get rejected. :( And for her, that's the end of the world. I used to think like that too, that I'd die if it turned out that I got rejected by Yoonsik. But guess what? I'm alive and breathing and really happy. EVERYONE in the world gets rejected, and it's not a big thing if you do. It doesn't mean you're any less awesome at all! And remember yesterday's post about how two people could only be together if they're really happy together? Well, confessing to someone and the outcome of that confession isn't how about how great you are, how many people love you, whether you're the class president, or anything like that at all. It's just like a equation. You like that person or you won't. And for the majority of people you won't. So, a person's heart is selectively permeable. And if you're not the thing that he's looking for, then you bounce off the wall. It's not your fault at all, it's just that you're not the kind of person he likes. And that's it. You can't change who you are, and you can't force him to like you, and no matter how hard you try, you can't force the other to be with you. And that's it. It's really simple, but sometimes, when you get rejected, you examine yourself, and go, "why doesn't he like me? would he like me if I was more like "so and so"? What part doesn't he like? If I get rid of all that, will he like me then?" And you shouldn't think that way, because it's useless. Things are just the way they are. And you will get accepted by someone you like back sometime in your life, that's guaranteed for the people that will be reading this. Because I know for a fact that everyone that has access to my blog is spontaneously wonderful, perfect, beautiful, and will find their perfect knight. <3 :)))))
Also, a bit of drama occurred today, but I won't write about it here, because I don't think it's appropriate. But basically what happened was that one friend and another were keeping something from yet another friend. And that friend was feeling really left out and curious, and mad that they wouldn't tell her. But person 1 and person 2 didn't think it would cause that big of a deal, because they thought it was just a joke. But person 3 didn't think it was that, and took it more seriously. So person one, person two, and person 3 had a sort of conflict together. But I think it's almost solved...sometimes, things have to take time to heal too. And today, I was being really mean by not paying enough attention to person 3 when she was talking to me, and that probably deepened the wound. So if she ever reads this, I hope she knows that I wasn't purposely doing it, but was just a bit out of it and preoccupied. And a bit awkward, because I didn't know what to say to someone who is really sad. Just normally? Would that hurt it more? More comforting? but that would bring attention to the fact that she's sad and make her feel ridiculous. Happy? when she's not...? And that thing about the bracelet, person 1 really didn't give that to me, I got it from my neighbor. Just in case it caused confusion. And if I ever did tell person 3 that I got it from person 1, are you sure I wasn't absentmindedly saying that? just a mumbled yeah, without really thinking about it?
To end the angst, I'll talk about something a bit more happy! I think I'm learning to dress better! AND....omg, I got the cutest thing ever from Henry! It's a monkey coin purse, and absolutely cute! :D:D:D:D: Thanks so much Hens, and I REALLY like it, like no kidding. :DDDD Whoa, you and Andrea's presents are just superb! <3 <3 <3
Thanks for reading this really long post. Comment below if you wish! Best of luck,
your blog poster,
Ann
So here's today's song of the day, it's really awesome: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Rvjfm5FYHM&feature=relmfu I really like it because I think Megan is just like stunningly pretty and cute, and her voice is just really cute. <3 :) :) and I like the music video too, so please give it a listen. It's pretty catchy. :D And just totally awesome XD
Today, one of my friends was going to confess to the guy she liked, but she ended up not doing it today because she thought she'd get rejected. :( And for her, that's the end of the world. I used to think like that too, that I'd die if it turned out that I got rejected by Yoonsik. But guess what? I'm alive and breathing and really happy. EVERYONE in the world gets rejected, and it's not a big thing if you do. It doesn't mean you're any less awesome at all! And remember yesterday's post about how two people could only be together if they're really happy together? Well, confessing to someone and the outcome of that confession isn't how about how great you are, how many people love you, whether you're the class president, or anything like that at all. It's just like a equation. You like that person or you won't. And for the majority of people you won't. So, a person's heart is selectively permeable. And if you're not the thing that he's looking for, then you bounce off the wall. It's not your fault at all, it's just that you're not the kind of person he likes. And that's it. You can't change who you are, and you can't force him to like you, and no matter how hard you try, you can't force the other to be with you. And that's it. It's really simple, but sometimes, when you get rejected, you examine yourself, and go, "why doesn't he like me? would he like me if I was more like "so and so"? What part doesn't he like? If I get rid of all that, will he like me then?" And you shouldn't think that way, because it's useless. Things are just the way they are. And you will get accepted by someone you like back sometime in your life, that's guaranteed for the people that will be reading this. Because I know for a fact that everyone that has access to my blog is spontaneously wonderful, perfect, beautiful, and will find their perfect knight. <3 :)))))
Also, a bit of drama occurred today, but I won't write about it here, because I don't think it's appropriate. But basically what happened was that one friend and another were keeping something from yet another friend. And that friend was feeling really left out and curious, and mad that they wouldn't tell her. But person 1 and person 2 didn't think it would cause that big of a deal, because they thought it was just a joke. But person 3 didn't think it was that, and took it more seriously. So person one, person two, and person 3 had a sort of conflict together. But I think it's almost solved...sometimes, things have to take time to heal too. And today, I was being really mean by not paying enough attention to person 3 when she was talking to me, and that probably deepened the wound. So if she ever reads this, I hope she knows that I wasn't purposely doing it, but was just a bit out of it and preoccupied. And a bit awkward, because I didn't know what to say to someone who is really sad. Just normally? Would that hurt it more? More comforting? but that would bring attention to the fact that she's sad and make her feel ridiculous. Happy? when she's not...? And that thing about the bracelet, person 1 really didn't give that to me, I got it from my neighbor. Just in case it caused confusion. And if I ever did tell person 3 that I got it from person 1, are you sure I wasn't absentmindedly saying that? just a mumbled yeah, without really thinking about it?
To end the angst, I'll talk about something a bit more happy! I think I'm learning to dress better! AND....omg, I got the cutest thing ever from Henry! It's a monkey coin purse, and absolutely cute! :D:D:D:D: Thanks so much Hens, and I REALLY like it, like no kidding. :DDDD Whoa, you and Andrea's presents are just superb! <3 <3 <3
Thanks for reading this really long post. Comment below if you wish! Best of luck,
your blog poster,
Ann