Most people who get engaged at the age of 16, such as that girl on the VAA, usually don't understand the committment that goes into such an important step in a relationship. Enagement is the promise that you will eventually marry one another and.. both marriage, and engagement, are a lot of work. Sure, they think, "Oh my god, I love you! I swear I'm going to wait for you until 10 years from now!" But.. they don't understand how much that goes into making a marriage, much less a serious relationship, work. In addition to this - People change over the years and to say that you're engaged at such a young age after such a short amount of time [to my knowledge, they've only been seeing each other about 7 months?] is.. irresponsible. Though.. trust me when I say that it's very unlikely that it will work out for them.
It's sorta like.. Kagome and "Thor."
As for the other person. If you're talking about who I think you are -- I don't think they were serious, necessarily; but.. if they were serious, I think it's a pretty bad sign for your relationship if your husband-to-be proposed to you during a forum-game of mafia.
I mean.. they've yet to actually meet - they've only been together about 3 months. And she seems like she'd be a bit more responsible with something like that, so.. I don't know. I didn't take that one seriously [not that I really took the aforementioned couple all that seriously either].
If by any chance you might just be talking about me since it kind sounds a lot like my situation... (Please to be excusing me if I'm mistaken.)
Uh, yes, I *was* joking. Actually, that comment was made by him before we even got together. Come on, now, you've got to give me a little more credit than that. I'm not that dumb. By no means was I serious about that.
I know you aren't dumb, darling. I didn't mean to come across that way, either -- If that's how I came across, I do apologize. I didn't think you were serious, as I said above, but I did look at the other side of the coin. I had no intention of trying to be malicious and I'm really, really sorry if you took it that way. :(
He wasn't clear in his post, so I was just trying to consider who else he could have meant. Once again, my most sincere apologies if I've hurt your feelings. Not my intention. :(
Edit to say: I've re-read my post and.. yeah, I was way out of line. I'm awfully sorry for writing what I did. I wasn't thinking as I was in a rush [no excuse] and, instead of writing out something a bit more polite and classy, I ended up writing something that made me come off pretty heartless/insensitive [to both parties, really]. Do know that I meant no ill-will towards your relationship with him [in fact, I'm totally rooting for both of you. ♥], and that I defnitely do not think that you're stupid, or make stupid decisions. :/ I hope you can forgive me. :/
It's sorta like.. Kagome and "Thor."
As for the other person. If you're talking about who I think you are -- I don't think they were serious, necessarily; but.. if they were serious, I think it's a pretty bad sign for your relationship if your husband-to-be proposed to you during a forum-game of mafia.
I mean.. they've yet to actually meet - they've only been together about 3 months. And she seems like she'd be a bit more responsible with something like that, so.. I don't know. I didn't take that one seriously [not that I really took the aforementioned couple all that seriously either].
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Uh, yes, I *was* joking. Actually, that comment was made by him before we even got together. Come on, now, you've got to give me a little more credit than that. I'm not that dumb. By no means was I serious about that.
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He wasn't clear in his post, so I was just trying to consider who else he could have meant. Once again, my most sincere apologies if I've hurt your feelings. Not my intention. :(
Edit to say: I've re-read my post and.. yeah, I was way out of line. I'm awfully sorry for writing what I did. I wasn't thinking as I was in a rush [no excuse] and, instead of writing out something a bit more polite and classy, I ended up writing something that made me come off pretty heartless/insensitive [to both parties, really]. Do know that I meant no ill-will towards your relationship with him [in fact, I'm totally rooting for both of you. ♥], and that I defnitely do not think that you're stupid, or make stupid decisions. :/ I hope you can forgive me. :/
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